Big_A Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Contact with my ex has been limited, but the time we were together was very close. This past weekend we finally had it out and she’s leaving for good. I told her I wouldn’t contact her and she just needs to let me know when she’s going to pick up her belongings. Tuesday after only 24 hrs of no contact her mail arrived. In it is what I believe to be her new ATM card. I know that her current card is expired and since she travels for work it has been inconvenient for her. So I called her and left her a message that I would send it to her. Then next day she left me a message saying something to the effect that she was having a rough day and she was sorry she didn’t call and proceeded to give me the address to her office. Before she finished the address I deleted the message. I realized that the reason I called her was not to give her the ATM card. It was just an excuse for me to do something nice for her in the hopes that she would reciprocate. It was another excuse to get her attention. I got really angry that I feel sorry for her having a bad day. She is with her new man. I am sitting around alone. It all made me realize how important NC is to getting your head straight and learning what your motives are. Only then does healing being.
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