Guest Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I just wanted to see if you girls preferred a virgin guy or a non-virgin guy and why?
SoleMate Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I presume you're targeting your questions at the under-21 age group? Because at 21+, the girl who insists on a virgin male is gonna find pretty slim pickins.
a4a Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I presume you're targeting your questions at the under-21 age group? Because at 21+, the girl who insists on a virgin male is gonna find pretty slim pickins. Or real bad pickins :lmao:
blind_otter Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Even when I was younger I didn't want to have sex with a virgin. Just personal preference. I had a guy trick me into taking his virginity once. He LIED to me when I asked, and said he had f***ed 2 or 3 girls. Which sounded weird because jeez, at that number you should prolly remember how many people you've f***ed. I remember that he was horrible, absolutely horrible in bed. No rhythm. No understanding of the concept of "In and Out". If he hadn't lied to me, I would have understood I guess. The way he presented it made the whole thing just oogy and uncomfortable. But that whole experience just made me never want to be with a man who was a virgin ever again.
PuppyDogEyes Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Because at 21+, the girl who insists on a virgin male is gonna find pretty slim pickins. Most of the time, true. Although my BF was 6 months from 21 before he finally lost his virginity. So I guess it is possible. I just wanted to see if you girls preferred a virgin guy or a non-virgin guy and why? Well, I don't really know if I'm qualified to answer this question, seeing that I'm 34 - at my age, it is impossible to find a virgin male now! (There's always that .01%, of course, but there's going to be a very bad reason behind it at this point.) But I'll try to answer it from this POV: Whatever experience my BF has, I'm the one that taught him. So in a small way, his being a virgin was a plus for me, because he's going to do what I like him to do in bed. :bunny: However, it can be a drag because I'm also the one that has to teach him, and sometimes I just can't be half-assed to do it! His being a virgin was also a plus in that I didn't have to worry about picking up any diseases from him, either - not likely to get one from your own hand. So I'd say that it's mostly a positive thing, unless you just don't have the patience to teach. Does this help? - pde.
a4a Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Well I did nail a virgin guy. oh 2 now that I think of it It really did not matter as he must have viewed some instructional videos and at least knew kinda what to do. The other one learned quickly.... I like smart guys I think I may prefer a virgin man..... less baggage and psycho X's that he boinked trying to get meddle in the relationship
catgirl1927 Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I'm too old. If I slept with a guy who was a virgin, I'm pretty sure I'd go to jail.
DazedandConfused33 Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I agree that finding a virgin guy is hard to come by (no pun intended!) but I kind of always wished I had gotten the chance to take a man's virginity as there is something endearing or memorable about it. Then again that could be my own selfish need to feel special and be remembered which I'm starting to see is becoming more prevalent now that I think about it. As far as preference, practice makes perfect whether you are a virgin or not because there are plenty of guys out there with "experience" who still don't know what the hell they are doing.
starlet Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Honestly? It really doesn't matter to me at all. (I sometimes think I don't want to go through the hassle of "training" a newbie, LOL, but it wouldnt be anywhere close to a deal breaker for me!)
2sunny Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 My vagina does not prefer a virgin! Like a bit of experience and an understanding of what he wants and needs.... Of course, I'm older, but I still felt this way when I was 20 so....
Tim'sAngel Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I have always had a fantasy of taking a younger guy and showing him how its done but never got around to actually doing that I always did prefer experienced men though. In fact, most of the men I was with had at least 15+ partners, which.. now looking back is kinda gross... OH well, I feel like I learned alot from them tho
Delectable Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 My second boyfriend was a virgin. Sex was NOT very satisfying at all. I loved him and loved sharing that experience with him. But when you stripped the 'emotion' away from it I wasn't very satisfied.
konfuzd Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 I had no idea my last bf was a virgin until after we broke up. I was shocked as hell, because I had some of the best lovin' of my life with him... maybe it's just because he had such a good teacher.... The first time was pretty bad, but I chalked it up to nervousness between any 2 people who do it for the first time, but it got much better... so I guess all of that was to say it makes no difference to me!
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