Bballswingr Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Hey everyone, i seem to have a problem of always going after the big flirters, you know, girls who seem to flirt with anyone they are friendly with for fun. This is a problem for me because then i can never tell if they are interested or just flirting. Any tips on figuring this one out?
luvtoto Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 OMG, I used to be friends with a guy that I called a "Toxic Flirt". He just gave the excuse that everyone he meets just likes him. But, I don't know...he seemed a little shady to me. No one flirts THAT much.
vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Hey everyone, i seem to have a problem of always going after the big flirters, you know, girls who seem to flirt with anyone they are friendly with for fun. This is a problem for me because then i can never tell if they are interested or just flirting. Any tips on figuring this one out? Coming from a "big flirter' I would say that if a girl is flirting around the room then she most likely is single yes, and trying to find the one that she initially "clicks" with. It might be that you go after the big flirter types because it may seem like a challenge to you. But to be on the safe side I would go for a girl that's more subdude if you want a for real gf. Usually the more flirtatious, the more confident, is the one that can get any guy. So from my experience, a girl like that will have alot of guy friends, which I'm not sure if you'd be comfortable with. All in all, if that kind of girl comes up to and hangs around you all night instead of working the room, then you're pretty much in like flin lol, so just be confident
Author Bballswingr Posted May 10, 2006 Author Posted May 10, 2006 yea i pretty much agree with you vi, i think i am intrested because of the challenge. This one girl i am kinda intrested in flirts with just about anyone, but she seems to initiate contact with me with texts and convo's, would this be a sign with a girl like this, or is she just being the same way she always is?
vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 yea i pretty much agree with you vi, i think i am intrested because of the challenge. This one girl i am kinda intrested in flirts with just about anyone, but she seems to initiate contact with me with texts and convo's, would this be a sign with a girl like this, or is she just being the same way she always is? Well it's hard to tell but if she keeps in contact with you on a normal basis or even more than I'd say she might be interested. Alot of times with me, if a guy calls or texts me and I don't have any interest in more than just friends then I'll call or text him back to be nice but than that's it, until he contacts me again, just to show him that I'm not trying to lead him on to anything. So if she keeps in good contact my suggestion would just be take things slow and kinda let her do the chasing if she's really interested. Because sometimes if a guy plays hard to get in a sense, then the girl becomes more interested, and vice versa. Another thing, if she wants to hang out with you and be seen with you, then that's also a good sign because a "big flirter" can be popular with the guys so to say , so she wouldn't want to ruin her "other chances" if she's seen with just one guy. hmmm does that make any sense? lol
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