MichaelIsTaken90 Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Hi Im michael im 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 years old. I have a problem right now and Im hoping that you could please help me with it. My girlfriend put up a very very sexy picture on myspace. I dont like this because everytime boys see her picture they send her messages. This really bothers me because they send her messages like "Hey mommy looking very sexy there in that picture get back at me". I hate this stuff. But anyways my girlfriend does not respect my feelings about this and still puts pictures that look good on there. She tells me she is going to take them off but she never does until she puts another good looking picture on there. I figure if she really wanted to take them off of myspace like what she promised me, she would of taken them off the minute i told her to. I use to have a myspace too but she made me delete my account because i said some flirting things to girls i shouldnt have said. So now im just thinking about making an account again because if she doesnt respect my feelings about this why should I? And thats not even the point right there. The point is when i use to have pictures on myspace that she thought looked good she told me to take them down and i did the moment she told me too. So anyways i dont know how to handle this situation the right way. I told her how i feel about this and she says she will do something but she NEVER does. I know she isnt cheating or flirting because i love her enough to know she isnt like that but this thing still bothers me. Oh and you know what else i got my ear pierced and to her it enhances my so called look. So i told her how i decided to get the other one pierced too but she tells me NO because she doesnt want other girls looking at me. Should i listen to her or go get my other ear pierced because why should i respect her feelings about that when she doesnt even repsect mine. And how should i handle this whole situation i described above. Please any HELP or ADVICE would be appreaciated.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Hunny, please don't take this the wrong way, but shes 15!! She isn't mature, she doesn't know what it takes to maintain a healthy relationship. You are both learning important things in life right now like respect, and how it feels when you don't recieve it. Instead of sitting around hoping you can convince others to respect you, you should be moving on with your life taking in all these lessons learned. **I know she isnt cheating or flirting because i love her enough to know she isnt like that You loving her has nothing to do with wether or not she will cheat. If she wasn't "like that" then she wouldn't want to show her body off to other men. All I'm saying is don't expect so much out of someone who doesn't know enough about life and relationships to make one work. It takes 2 people who respect each other. Love isn't the only thing that will make a relationship work. Hell, alot of adults don't even realize that. Just realize that you can't make her feel a certain way or see everything from your point of view. If you have already expressed how you feel to her and she hasn't made any changes, then there isn't much more you can do.
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