Guest Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 I much more prefer hanging out with guys than girls, but no matter what, they always seem to have feelings for me that I just cannot reciprocate. I'm not cold and I'm not heartless, I just know I have yet to meet the next person I choose to have an intimate relationship with. Should I just stop being friends with guys?
mini696 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Maybe you should look at how you act around them... You obviously do things that make them think you are attracted to them. But to answer your question... No, you should not stop being friends with guys, just be honest about your feeling towards them.
vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 11, 2006 Posted May 11, 2006 I much more prefer hanging out with guys than girls, but no matter what, they always seem to have feelings for me that I just cannot reciprocate. I'm not cold and I'm not heartless, I just know I have yet to meet the next person I choose to have an intimate relationship with. Should I just stop being friends with guys? wow I have the same problem! I prefer to have more guy friends than girls because girls always seem to cause drama with me. BUT I do have a group of very close girl friends that I get along with really well. But my guy friends tend to always want more so it's hard to have guys as friends but as long as you're honest with them I see no harm in having guy friends.
Jadey Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Maybe you should look at how you act around them... You obviously do things that make them think you are attracted to them. But to answer your question... No, you should not stop being friends with guys, just be honest about your feeling towards them. I totally agree with you You're obviously letting off signals, or something, that is saying "I want to be more than friends" But you shouldn't just stop being friends with them. Just let your real feelings be known and don't let them cross the line. Good luck hun!
blind_otter Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Maybe you should look at how you act around them... You obviously do things that make them think you are attracted to them. But to answer your question... No, you should not stop being friends with guys, just be honest about your feeling towards them. I don't agree. I've had this problem since I started having guy friends in college. I no longer have male friends because of this issue, I tried everything I could to attend to it, being honest about not reciprocating the feelings, trying very hard to mediate how I act or what types of conversations I allow them to have with me. It never worked so I just gave up. I feel that I have a pretty manageable hold on how I present myself. I never understood why the problem kept occuring, and I tried many different stratgies.
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