joel Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 got the msg from some gal i been hanging out wiht-met her off the net. met her friends briefly ang got this msg yesterday via email. what the heck indecent behaviour-omg i did nothing. this is crazy- inapporaopraite behaviour-what did i do really. this is insane. i never said "hey baby, come lets ahve sex now or anything sexual". just casual small talk like i do with male friends and co workers. waht is wrong wiht em. she invited me to her b day party- i might not even go. what screwed up freinds-they hardly even now me and this. tell me what you guys think of this letter. should i pursue her or say ah see ya. i phone her she never phones me. last 3 wks i been getin busy busy-just to hang out for coffee. this is screwed Dan: We, jen's friends feel that we need to discuss some important issues concerning your inappropriate behaviour. This is a collective email that we need to send to you because we are upset with your social actions. According to jen, you have known each other for a short amount of time and are becoming closer and closer. She tells us most everything regarding your relationship (because we are her good friends and we care for her). As far as we know, you have only gone out a few times and have made good (interesting) conversation to put it lightly. We understand that you are a smart and nice person and that you seem VERY interested in Jen. HOWEVER.... It appears to us that you have been asking jen about US. Particularly Lisa. This is a very bold move on your part and we do not know what to think of it. We know that you are "searching" for a girlfriend and that you are considering all options. We believe that your brash and indecent behaviour is not the best way to go. In fact, it will probably deter any potential candidates and future relationships you may develop. HERE ARE SOME QUESTIONS FOR YOU: 1. WHAT PROVOKED YOU TO ASK JEN OUT AFTER KNOWING HER FOR ONLY SO LONG? 2. WHY DID AGREE TO COME TO BOWLING IN THE FIRST PLACE? 3. WHY DID YOU NOT BOWL? 4. WHY DID YOU NOT SPEAK TO ANY OF US? 5. YOU APPEARED TO BE WANTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH JEN- WHY DID YOU ASK ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT WE WOULD WANT TO DATE YOU? 6. WHAT MAKES YOU INTERESTED IN US? 7. DID YOU CHOOSE LISA JUST BECUASE OF HOW SHE LOOKS? IF SO, YOU ARE SO SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW!! (YOU DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO HER) 8. SO YOU WANT TO COME TO JEN'S BIRTHDAY NOW EH? IS IT TO CHECK OUT MORE GIRLS? 9. WHY DO YOU THINK SO HIGHLY OF YOURSELF? BE HUMBLE AND MODEST MAN --------------------------------------------------------- HERE ARE SOME POINTERS: 1. YOU ARE AN EXTREMELY QUIET AND INTROVERTED MAN -- TALK!! 2. YOU DO NOT GO TO A SOCIAL EVENT THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE CONSIDERED A "DATE" AND CHECK OUT HER FRIENDS AS IF THEY ARE MEAT!!! 3. YOU DO NOT ASK ABOUT JEN'S FRIENDS AND WHETHER OR NOT THEY WOULD WANT TO DATE YOU ESPECIALLY NOT AFTER JUST MEETING THEM ONCE 4. YOU DO NOT TELL A GIRL THAT SHE IS NOT PRETTY --EVER AND ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU COMPARE HER TO HER FRIENDS 5. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO BE A GENTLEMEN, BE COURTEOUS, AND BEHAVE IN A MORE SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE MANNER ok...i am sure that we have showed our displeasure with you. when she first told us about what you said, we were literally all blown away. we believed that you were a nice guy, but it appears to us that you are a jerk. if you don't explain yourself or change your ways, you can hit the road JACK! PS. JEN IS, AND NEVER WILL PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!!!!
tanbark813 Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Well either you're really weird in real life and did something over the line, or the person who sent you that email is a psychopath. Or both.
crazy_grl Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Well either you're really weird in real life and did something over the line, or the person who sent you that email is a psychopath. Or both. What tan said. What exactly did you say about her friends? Did you say something about her not being pretty?
justagirliegirl Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 What did you say to them? Where you flirting with Lisa? I have to say if you really weren't being an ass, the whole lot of these bitches are nuts and I would kick them all to the curb and fast. If anyone ever wrote me a letter like that, I would never speak to them again.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I agree. This message is pretty screwed up! I mean, how old are these girls?? So tell us, how many times have you seen this girl in person? last 3 wks i been getin busy busy-just to hang out for coffee. What does this mean - 'busy busy'??
aleatoryd Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Ask Jen herself about this e-mail to clarify her position. You don't know who wrote it to be honest. As you want to go out with Jen you really only need to see what she says. It sounds like a misunderstanding unless there was alcohol involved Any way get a response off Jen and if you have to explain where you stand but don't go apologising for something you haven't done. These girls sound psycho!
Guest Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 What tan said. What exactly did you say about her friends? Did you say something about her not being pretty? i nver said not pretty to any girl. i never flirted with lisa or any girl. i just mentioned who was single since Jen said we were just freinds , i am looking for gf. freinds do set up freidns right
typical Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 I am led to believe that this email that was sent to you wasnt sent by Jen's friends at all. I believe it was sent by Jen and Jen alone.
catgirl1927 Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Wow. One stop ticket to crazy town. Scary, scary stuff.
Adunaphel Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Show it to Jen. Ask her about it. She *will*know whether it was actually her friends who sent it. It is also very possible. imo, that the e-mail was sent by someone who is trying to break you up. Either to hit on you, to hit on Jen, or just for the heck of it.
SmoochieFace Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 Sounds like it was written by a bunch of psych pupils... surprise surprise... they seem to be nuttier than fruitcakes and that seems to be a prerequisite for the profession. That must have been their *warm up* for their doctoral thesis.
magda Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 drama. if she never calls you, stop pursuing her. her friends are crazy anyway.
tinktronik Posted May 9, 2006 Posted May 9, 2006 It's either some sort of cult friendship or Jen had multiple personality disorder where she incorperates people she actually knows. Stay away ,,,,,,psycho
blue16 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 I love the 'tips' section at the end, the girls condescending tone is palpable.
vampress1 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 I am led to believe that this email that was sent to you wasnt sent by Jen's friends at all. I believe it was sent by Jen and Jen alone. I have to agree with typical... that email is just weird. My girlfriends have dated some real putz's over the years, but because I care for my friends, I would never threaten the guys they date! I can't believe she/they actually said "If you don't explain yourself or change your ways, you can hit the road jack!" WTF?!?! My suggestion is this: Show the email to Jen and watch the reaction. Like I said, my guess is it's her handy work... maybe her reaction will tell you differently. If she didn't write it, she should know that her friends are making decisions for her... PATHETIC!!! There is a chance she will stand up for her friends, saying that they really care for her bla, bla bla. If this is the case, GET OUT!! These are the psycho girls that give us "normal gals" a bad rep!
Mary3 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 got the msg from some gal i been hanging out wiht-met her off the net. met her friends briefly ang got this msg yesterday via email. what the heck indecent behaviour-omg i did nothing. this is crazy- inapporaopraite behaviour-what did i do really. this is insane. i never said "hey baby, come lets ahve sex now or anything sexual". just casual small talk like i do with male friends and co workers. waht is wrong wiht em. she invited me to her b day party- i might not even go. what screwed up freinds-they hardly even now me and this. tell me what you guys think of this letter. should i pursue her or say ah see ya. i phone her she never phones me. last 3 wks i been getin busy busy-just to hang out for coffee. this is screwed Dan: We, jen's friends feel that we need to discuss some important issues concerning your inappropriate behaviour. This is a collective email that we need to send to you because we are upset with your social actions. According to jen, you have known each other for a short amount of time and are becoming closer and closer. She tells us most everything regarding your relationship (because we are her good friends and we care for her). As far as we know, you have only gone out a few times and have made good (interesting) conversation to put it lightly. We understand that you are a smart and nice person and that you seem VERY interested in Jen. HOWEVER.... It appears to us that you have been asking jen about US. Particularly Lisa. This is a very bold move on your part and we do not know what to think of it. We know that you are "searching" for a girlfriend and that you are considering all options. We believe that your brash and indecent behaviour is not the best way to go. In fact, it will probably deter any potential candidates and future relationships you may develop. HERE ARE SOME QUESTIONS FOR YOU: 1. WHAT PROVOKED YOU TO ASK JEN OUT AFTER KNOWING HER FOR ONLY SO LONG? 2. WHY DID AGREE TO COME TO BOWLING IN THE FIRST PLACE? 3. WHY DID YOU NOT BOWL? 4. WHY DID YOU NOT SPEAK TO ANY OF US? 5. YOU APPEARED TO BE WANTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH JEN- WHY DID YOU ASK ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT WE WOULD WANT TO DATE YOU? 6. WHAT MAKES YOU INTERESTED IN US? 7. DID YOU CHOOSE LISA JUST BECUASE OF HOW SHE LOOKS? IF SO, YOU ARE SO SUPERFICIAL AND SHALLOW!! (YOU DIDN'T EVEN SPEAK TO HER) 8. SO YOU WANT TO COME TO JEN'S BIRTHDAY NOW EH? IS IT TO CHECK OUT MORE GIRLS? 9. WHY DO YOU THINK SO HIGHLY OF YOURSELF? BE HUMBLE AND MODEST MAN --------------------------------------------------------- HERE ARE SOME POINTERS: 1. YOU ARE AN EXTREMELY QUIET AND INTROVERTED MAN -- TALK!! 2. YOU DO NOT GO TO A SOCIAL EVENT THAT COULD POSSIBLY BE CONSIDERED A "DATE" AND CHECK OUT HER FRIENDS AS IF THEY ARE MEAT!!! 3. YOU DO NOT ASK ABOUT JEN'S FRIENDS AND WHETHER OR NOT THEY WOULD WANT TO DATE YOU ESPECIALLY NOT AFTER JUST MEETING THEM ONCE 4. YOU DO NOT TELL A GIRL THAT SHE IS NOT PRETTY --EVER AND ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU COMPARE HER TO HER FRIENDS 5. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO BE A GENTLEMEN, BE COURTEOUS, AND BEHAVE IN A MORE SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE MANNER ok...i am sure that we have showed our displeasure with you. when she first told us about what you said, we were literally all blown away. we believed that you were a nice guy, but it appears to us that you are a jerk. if you don't explain yourself or change your ways, you can hit the road JACK! PS. JEN IS, AND NEVER WILL PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!!!! Seriously immature and psychotic.......nuff said
littlekitty Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 WTF?!! Some people need to get lives of their own and stop living vicariously through this girl!! That or she sent it herself....!
typical Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 when she first told us about what you said, we were literally all blown away. As are the rest of us, by the audacity of Jen and her "simulated" female "we got Jens back" posse. PS. JEN IS, AND NEVER WILL PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!!!! Note the capitalization. She is begging desperately for you to believe that she isnt playing hard to get. A clear indication that she IS playing hard to get. What happened is this: No one crosses Jen. NO ONE. She wanted to be the CENTER of your universe, was pissed she couldnt control the situation, and thought to rear you back in. I would venture to say that if you become involved with this creature, you will find yourself the center of a stalkers twisted mind. She will stalk you, control you, accuse you, harp on you, not to mention how insanely jealous she will be. She is an ego maniac who will use the excuse of her friends to cosign her behaviour. I can see it now..... Darla said she saw you in your bedroom with another woman so that is why I have been stuck inside your closet for the last three days.... followed quickly by an email from "Darla" over how disgraceful you are....
Pantero Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Yo. I didn't read any of the other replies, so forgive me if I repeat something. I just couldn't wait to say: WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT!??!?!!?!? Are you friggin' KIDDING me? Who the f-ck sends out an email like this?! This is odd. Delete it and move on. Don't bother seeing any of these kooks again. Some people...
SuperMonk Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 "Danger Will Robinson! Danger" Watch out dude, this is only the beginning. You got a choice to completely cut her off and move on to someone more sane or you will have to deal with this or any of her friends.
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