Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Ok I posted this on another thread and thought it deserved its own thread! Ok everyone, get your thinking cap on and answer this ...... When you first start dating someone, what keeps his interest? How do you keep him excited by you without playing games? And finally .... What turns you off the most about a girl?
Pyro Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Well since I am a guy, I will answer the only question that I can. I get turned off by a girl who is full of herself, uses the words "like" or "umm" excessively, too clingy, and is not honest.
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Thank you Riddly poo's! But hon when you date a girl, what differenciates the ones who you fall for and the ones who start to bore you?
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 What turns you off the most about a girl? Bad feet and no fashion sense...
Pyro Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Thank you Riddly poo's! But hon when you date a girl, what differenciates the ones who you fall for and the ones who start to bore you? Riddly poo's? I like it. Well Lishmaster, I have never really gotten bored with anyone. If i were to, i guess that it would stem from seeing too much of her, meaning that she depends on me and does not have a life of her own. I guess that would fall under the too clingy topic.
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Bad feet and no fashion sense... :lmao: :lmao: Now Alphie ....... THAT was fekkin funny hunny! Oh and where in London was you born? (Totally off topic I know!)
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Oh and where in London was you born? (Totally off topic I know!) why you askin' me all these questions bitch?!? go eat your fish 'n chips with vinegar and watch Dr. Who on BBC2 or ITV or whatever channel its on...
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 why you askin' me all these questions bitch?!? go eat your fish 'n chips with vinegar and watch Dr. Who on BBC2 or ITV or whatever channel its on... :eek: :eek:
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Oh and where in London was you born? (Totally off topic I know!) Somewhere in London, I have my English birth certificate in my safe. When I was very small we lived in Cardiff and Mansfield also. I used to play in the Sherwood Forest and also remember Nottingham a bit. My dad was in medical training at the time so we moved quite a lot.
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Oh how cool! I live in London that is why I asked! Anyway back to the question in hand ............
prfrogkisser Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Ok I posted this on another thread and thought it deserved its own thread! Ok everyone, get your thinking cap on and answer this ...... When you first start dating someone, what keeps his interest? How do you keep him excited by you without playing games? And finally .... What turns you off the most about a girl? What keeps me interested is someone spontaneous and creative = unpredictable Games are overated. Just make the time with this person exciting and fun.Kiss,hug,give complimets,surprise him ect...A man falls in love you because of the way you make him fell about himself;)
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 ...A man falls in love you because of the way you make him fell about himself;) I don't think so PRFK....a man falls in love because of good sex and good home-cooked meals. You may laugh but its not far from the truth.
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 What keeps me interested is someone spontaneous and creative = unpredictable Games are overated. Just make the time with this person exciting and fun.Kiss,hug,give complimets,surprise him ect...A man falls in love you because of the way you make him fell about himself;) And what can you do to surprise a man?
Touche Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I don't think so PRFK....a man falls in love because of good sex and good home-cooked meals. You may laugh but its not far from the truth. frogkisser is RIGHT. Good sex and home-cooked meals are all about making YOU feel good. Get it?
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 come on guys ....... stop beating around the bush and come right out with the juicy details!
catgirl1927 Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I don't think so PRFK....a man falls in love because of good sex and good home-cooked meals. You may laugh but its not far from the truth. I think this is hilarious and cute. But it's true, that IS about making you feel good. So prfrogkisser's point stands.
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 come on guys ....... stop beating around the bush and come right out with the juicy details! be sexy yet elusive...and let him think there are other men interested in you (but don't be mean or obvious about it)
Yamaha Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 The interest stays for me when I am with someone that we have great chemistry and can talk about anything and be silly and stupid without feeling dumb or nervous. My interest is not in games or being indifferent but having something special with her and we just enjoy being in each others company. When you hear their voice and you think happy thoughts or you see them and a good feelings comes over you. Yes, is is kinda mushy and romantic but that is what I like in the person I am interested in and it doesn't happen often so if it does you better take notice.
prfrogkisser Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 frogkisser is RIGHT. Good sex and home-cooked meals are all about making YOU feel good. Get it? Well said
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 The interest stays for me when I am with someone that we have great chemistry and can talk about anything and be silly and stupid without feeling dumb or nervous. ok YAMAHA, i can dig that....but what if you have all that stuff but she's deficient in a major area. what if she's bad in bed?
Touche Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Oh and Lishy...I gave you my "tips" on your other thread but I guess you didn't like them since you ignored them. Oh, well they worked for me!
Yamaha Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 ok YAMAHA, i can dig that....but what if you have all that stuff but she's deficient in a major area. what if she's bad in bed? If she's bad in bed and unwilling to learn or experiment then we have a problem. If it continues then I would probably end the relationship as a physical fulfillment is important to a romance. I have not had this problem as evey women I was interested in was great in bed or was willing to learn to please each other. I have had a few bad kissers and it was a turn off but I would not get to the point of my previous post as I would have stopped it before we were really involved.
alphamale Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I have had a few bad kissers and it was a turn off oh yeah thats the worst. vast majority of women are good kissers but if you run into one who is not then it sucks....the first thing I think is if she's bad at sucking face she can't be good at sucking cock
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Oh and Lishy...I gave you my "tips" on your other thread but I guess you didn't like them since you ignored them. Oh, well they worked for me! Oh honey your tips were great! I just wanted to start a new thread and I thought this was a topic people could use! That other thread had got so lomg no-one was reading it anymore! So no honey, I didnt ignore them I am just elaborating on them!
Author Lishy Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 oh yeah thats the worst. vast majority of women are good kissers but if you run into one who is not then it sucks....the first thing I think is if she's bad at sucking face she can't be good at sucking cock Ohhhhhhhh there is nothing worse than a bad kisser! I love kissing for hours and if the guy cant kiss he wont get a second date!
Recommended Posts