Twink Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Hi, It has been three weeks since my ex left me and I have had a huge emotional roller coaster with him, texting him calling him all kinds of stuff. But I stopped contact for three days, Then I get a text from him Saying My stiches come out in a week and a half. When I got the text, I did not know what to think. Well, found out from some mututal friends he got hit in the head with a 2 by 4 at work. I did not respond all day, waited twenty four hours. Then I texted him telling him Sorry to hear you have stiches. Now, I don't know if that was wrong to text him. This man, does not want to be with me. I have poured my heart out to him over and over to get nothing in return. So, after I text him. He does not respond. What do you guys think the meaning behind his text was? I am confused as to why he sent it to me. Because i had know idea of what happened to him. I am still keeping no contact. I have to because I need to heal, but yet I felt the need to tell I am sorry to hear he is hurt. Was it wrong for me to respond to him?
GoingDownSwinging Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 There is something about the human mind that makes us desire things for which we cannot have. When you stopped trying to contact your ex, he probably realized that you might actually be trying to get on with your life so he decided that he would toss out a line to see if it would "hook you" persay. My ex has done the same thing to me over and over, and every time I have taken the bait. No, it was not wrong for you to text him back because in your mind, you are just responding to his text. But the reality of it is (and I know this hurts) that it may just be a game to him.
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