MadKurlz Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t87952/ thats the link to the previous post.. He told me last night the reason why he has been so distant is becuase of a fight we had 3 weeks ago. and ever since then its never been th same for him. Sd everythign I do or say annoys him and gets him angry with me. He sd he stills loves me, but that there is something diffrent. He also sd he has never yelled at anyone before in his entire life the way he did when we argued 3 weeks ago. I told him if I could take it back, I would, but I cant. and that there was nothing I could do to change that. He sd he wanted to wait it out and see if things change between us, and if they didnt then we would go our seperate ways. I told him not to spare my feelings just bc he thinks i might not have a place to go. I told him that maybe it was best if i leave, and he sd toplease not to argue with him. he wants me to stay and that he doesnt want me to go. He wants to wait it out and see if things return back to normal.
Author MadKurlz Posted May 9, 2006 Author Posted May 9, 2006 ok , so did i just get dumped in a nice way here? maybe i should just sit back and relax and see what happens.
robot Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 From your post, it seems like an arguement that led to message to "go separate ways", but he want you to stay (wtf). Is he too chicken to dump you or genuinely wanting to fix things? Anyway, there is no nice or bad way of getting dumped. It just sux. You are right about waiting, but ask for a timeframe. Stick to it by giving each other the space and (importantly the respect). In the meantime, think realistically about the relationship. Clear your head, don't over react, stay cool. At the end of the day, decision is yours. You know him better than people here on LS. Move on if its not worth it.
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