radiation7740 Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Does anyone think it is possible for me to knowingly reject my soulmate? Why or why not? And once I deliberately go against fate then have I blown my chances of getting my soulmate back? Or do I have to live with the consequences?
angel583 Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 firstly, what has made you come to the conclusion they are your soulmate and secondly if you think they are what has made you reject them?
Tim'sAngel Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Does anyone think it is possible for me to knowingly reject my soulmate? Why or why not? And once I deliberately go against fate then have I blown my chances of getting my soulmate back? Or do I have to live with the consequences? 1) I dont believe in soulmates. There are a large number of people in the world that you are compatible with. "Soulmate" is just a term for romatic teenagers 2) I don't believe in fate. Anything we do today could change what happens tomorrow 3) We always have to deal with consequences everyday. If I dont take out the trash today, I will have to deal with the consequences of the putrid smell. How old are you??
basscatcher Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Definitions of Soulmates Classic Meaning of Soulmates The concepts of soulmates arose from Greek mythology. According to the story, our ancestors once had 2 heads, 4 arms. They did something to offend a god so that god punished them by splitting them down the middle, resulting in the creation of humans. As a punishment, we are condemned to spend our lives searching for the other half, our soulmates. Spiritual Soulmate Concepts Many religions and spiritual paths believe in reincarnation and the concept of karma. Through reincarnation, soulmates may spend many lifetimes together in past lives. Other spiritual methods of searching for one's soulmate are astrology, numerology, palm reading, personality types, and magic. Modern spritual paths often blend western and eastern philosophies. Companion Soulmates These are people that we encounter through their life. These are usually friends, teachers, mentors, or other people who have helped you achieving a life's goal or helped you out of a crisis. Twin Soulmates These types of soulmate are your closest friends or a person whom you really click with. According to those who believe in reincarnation, you have already met them in a past life, and in this life you are continuing the relationship. There is an emotional bond between these soulmates and each is able to sense the feelings of each other.. Twin Flame Soulmates This is the most popular type of soulmate. There is usually one twin flame soulmate for each of us. Twin flame soulmates have spent multiple lifetimes together in past lives. There is incredible chemistry and attraction towards each other. They "complete" each other and only few lucky people are able to find their twin flame soulmate. Twin flame soulmates, if separated, usually suffer enormous pain. Love Economics Definition of Soulmates Love Economics is our theory of love and dating. It is based on probabilities calculations, population statistics, and empirical research findings from Psychology, Sociology, Anthropology, and Psychiatry. Love Economics explains social interactions in economic terms, benefits and costs. Based on this theory, the person who gives you the highest benefit per cost ratio on this Earth is your soulmate. The benefit to cost ratio is called your soulmate ratio. Mathematically, the ratio is written as: Soulmate Ratio=Total Love Benefit / Total Love Cost Your soulmate is the person who will maximize your soulmate ratio and vice versa. If another person exists that has the ability to give you a higher soulmate ratio than the person you are with, then the person you are with is not your soulmate. No one in this world, including being by yourself, could make you happier than being in love with your soulmate. True love is the love you share with your soulmate. Some people believe that a potential soulmate may be living halfway around the world. Based on the Love Economic Theory, the odds are against this happening due to cultural differences unless you just moved from there. Also, geographical distance will increase search, research, and maintenance costs. Unless one of you decides to take the risk to move to the other person's location, he/she is not your soulmate. The longer you are in love with your soulmate, the higher the soulmate ratio becomes. Better communication skills will emerge and you both will share more experiences resulting in more similarities. It is only after you finished the research phase and had been in love for many years can you determine if the person you are with is indeed your soulmate.
blind_otter Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 1) I dont believe in soulmates. There are a large number of people in the world that you are compatible with. "Soulmate" is just a term for romatic teenagers 2) I don't believe in fate. Anything we do today could change what happens tomorrow 3) We always have to deal with consequences everyday. If I dont take out the trash today, I will have to deal with the consequences of the putrid smell. Yes, yes, and yes. I agree ^
basscatcher Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Does anyone think it is possible for me to knowingly reject my soulmate? Why or why not? And once I deliberately go against fate then have I blown my chances of getting my soulmate back? Or do I have to live with the consequences? Take the word soulmate and replace it with a differnt word: "Does anyone think it is possible for me to knowlingly reject "someone I really feel compatable with"? Why or why not? And once I deliberately go against "what I believe" then have I blown my chances od getting my 'partner' back? Or do I have to live with the copnsequences?
KittenMoon Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Or we can think of soulmates as working together in tandem to create something better. Like peanut butter and jelly. But peanut butter can go with marshmallow fluff too, or bananas. It all works but in different ways. Ok, I've had a long day.....
Tim'sAngel Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Or we can think of soulmates as working together in tandem to create something better. Like peanut butter and jelly. But peanut butter can go with marshmallow fluff too, or bananas. It all works but in different ways. Ok, I've had a long day..... MMmm I haven't tried peanut butter and marshmallow fluff yet!! I do the PB and bananas tho... yummy!! OK, now I'm hungry
blind_otter Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Take the word soulmate and replace it with a differnt word: "Does anyone think it is possible for me to knowlingly reject "someone I really feel compatable with"? Why or why not? And once I deliberately go against "what I believe" then have I blown my chances od getting my 'partner' back? Or do I have to live with the copnsequences? Then, yes you can rejected that person. You can reject anyone. If you go against what you believe, then you most likely have blown your chances because you basically acted against your own internal compass. And of course you alway shave to live with the consequences of all actions.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Damn... If I ever have a question, Im gonna ask Pada!! She does her research!!
basscatcher Posted May 10, 2006 Posted May 10, 2006 Damn... If I ever have a question' date=' Im gonna ask Pada!! She does her research!![/quote'] I don't know it all. I am growth motivated and I am motivated to understand relationships, why people do what they do. Why I do what I do. I have a uncanny sense of investigation when it comes to interpersonal relationships.. There are LSr's who have better understanding then I do. I am just as zealous though...
VegasFan Posted May 11, 2006 Posted May 11, 2006 But peanut butter can go with marshmallow fluff too, or bananas. Hmmm, I'm going to have to try this marshmallow fluff that you speak of. Anyways, getting back to the original question: yes, I do believe it is possible (and necessary) to reject your soulmate (i.e., someone you really care about) if the relationship is bad for you. I used to live with a girl who I always considered to be my soulmate. She's the only girl I ever met that I can still remember the very first moment I saw her, because sparks flew with such intensity. We lived together for four years, and then the relationship ended very badly (she cheated on me and treated me with a lot of disrespect). Thirteen years later, I am married to another girl now, and we have two great kids together. I still think about my ex, but I would not get back together with her.
Guest Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 If you feel a vibe hell, that might be what you think is your soulmate. My advice..... Get your feet wet..... you seem convinced there is a connection and one worth exploring if you want . good luck
burning 4 revenge Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 There is no such thing as a soul, so there can be no such thing as a soulmate. There is certainly no such thing as a sole-mate. Figuratively, soulmate means..... Soulmate- Any one of a number of people someone feels both intellectually and emotionally compatible with. And yes. My x said she was my soulmate, her words-not mine, and dumped me for someone she said she was not intellectually compatible with. They were more sexually compatible and that trumps intangibles.
basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 There is no such thing as a soulquote] I refute this statement. It's your opinion.......I believe we have souls... I believe we are all compatable to certain types of people who fit into the frame of our wants and needs. The more we connect with that person the more we feel as soulmates.
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