Vertex Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Her latest blog entry: And when all the distractions calm down... ...I realize I am deeply lonely. There are so many things I wish I could say to you, but I don't know where to start, and I know it won't do any good. We used to tell each other everything, and now it's like there's a huge wall between us. How can I get over you, when the barrier is such a strong reminder of everything I no longer have? I feel so foolish for thinking I was going to get out of this without any regrets. Denial worked for a while...but now I just feel this hollow pain. I miss us. But at the end of the day, there's nobody to hear my words, and I am just a foolish girl. This has been after quite a bit of NC
bunnzy Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 We need more info - why are you reading her blog? Did you break it off or did she? and would you contemplate breaking NC to answer some of her questions and let her and yourself move on?
Author Vertex Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 We were bf/gf for two years. She suddenly became distant. My efforts to save the relationship were not supplemented by any action on her part. She felt we were too routine and boring and that it made her hate relationships, or that it kept her from being with friends, whereas I felt that you can still do fun things and be with friends and that she just wasn't putting in the effort to do such things. So she broke up with me and blocked me on everything (messengers, etc). We haven't spoken for like half a month or so but I still read her blog despite her rare posts.
Alexandra Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 We haven't spoken for like half a month or so but I still read her blog despite her rare posts. That was hardly a proper blog entry, that was a message to you through and through so she knows you're reading but why would she not call or email instead I don't know. Maybe she was trying to shoot two rabbits, get you to read the "I want back" message as well as scrap some compassion from her regular readers. I think you need to ask yourself what you want here. You may also have to wonder if the things that caused her to get bored (that's what it sounds like to me) are still there, if they were in the relationship or in her.
Author Vertex Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Well when we were together I'd usually try to offer her stuff to do and she would be hesitant. She's very headstrong in the sense of doing only what she wants. So naturally any unhappy feelings she had she blamed on routine in our relationship and used it to eventually justify breakup. I think the issues lie within her.
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