Guest Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 My H and I have been M 13 years. He gets turned on by my past sexual R. He doesn't ask to talk about them all the time but sometimes he will bring them up out of the blue and wants to talk about it. I have told him I don't really want to bring up my past and he says that he gets turned on thinking about me being w/ another man (from my past). I don't bring up his sexual past...don't want to hear it, but he will bring it up but not as often as he brings up mine. If it turns him on should I answer his ? about it? I'm not uncomfortable, unless he ask me about someone I really regret sleeping w/. If it turns him on to hear it is there any harm in it?
Recommended Posts