Brittanyjean06 Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 Ever since me and my ex have broken up( which was 8 months ago) I have always recieved private calls, and hang ups atleast once a month last week someone called me five times and each time contiounlly hung up on me! and just now on the house phone It puts false things in my head, of thinkig It's my ex...I can't help but think hmm what if it is him? but than again he has had a new girlfriend for a while I know noone can really put in their opinions because they don't really know, but It's holding me back..and making me happy and thats terrible because if it really isn't than I am postponing alot of stuff...? any advice
Yamaha Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I think you are obsessing over this guy (a little), BJ. He might be doing these things but if he is and not really contacting you then what does it really mean? Can I ask you if you do these same activities to him?
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 I am obssessing over it, but that is normal. he was my first love for almost 3 years.... and NO I do not do any of those things to him, I stoped all contact after two months after the break up.. It is really hard not to obssess over the one you love ya know
westernxer Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 Lock all your windows. The boogeyman's about to pay you a visit.
magda Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 You might call the phone company and ask if you can have private calls blocked.
dgiirl Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 BJ, if it IS your ex (and I assume he was the dumper), isnt that a little controlling of him? Instead of being happy, you should get angry! He doesnt want you, but he wants to keep tabs on you. That isnt very nice. Also, it might not be him, but maybe his gf? Maybe she's a little psycho? I'd call the phone company and see if you can get a trace put on the line. My dad worked for the phone company so it always came in useful that he had access to our telephone line It also wasnt so useful when he could interrupt my phone conversations when he was at work and yell at me to get off the phone
jerbear Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 get off the phone :laugh: I remember doing that to my parents! I had no ride and no ability to get anywere. Poor lost high school days.
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 Your right on if it was him, Id be for keeping tabs but I was the one who ended it with saying hurtful things to him, and I guess it came back to me when he went to another girl but this will just take alot of time, I would be happy if we talked but god that would bring me right back to where I was 8 months ago, I blocked his house number the first time we broke up even though i new he wasn't gonna talk to me...It is my birthday In 6 days and im sure he knows that But it might not be him, but I need to get angry over the stuff that happend to me in that relationship It couldent be her bc she wouldent have known my new number thanks though for advice!
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 You know It really could be her, bc my new cell phone number was in his phone...but they also called the house phone and hung up...thats not in his phone... If that was him keeping tabs, how would calling be keeping tabs?? why would they do that??
dgiirl Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 why would they do that?? cos they are petty? They wanna mess with your head, and you giving it this much thought is just doing what they want.
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 Damn thats freaking cold no screw that I am doing perfectly fine with out that bastard..
dgiirl Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Damn thats freaking cold no screw that I am doing perfectly fine with out that bastard.. if he wants to come back, then dont you think you deserve the full respect of him being totally upfront about it? If it IS him, it's pretty lame. And if it's not, it's still lame. Either way, it doesnt deserve the attention you are giving it, unless of course it starts to become harrasement.
My_Other_I Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 You know It really could be her, bc my new cell phone number was in his phone...but they also called the house phone and hung up...thats not in his phone... If that was him keeping tabs, how would calling be keeping tabs?? why would they do that?? Find out how to trace the call and do it (call your company or look-up the instructions). If it comes from the same number, after they call 3 times and you trace it three times, the police will go talk to them. It costs a buck each time but might be worth it.
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 thats true but the calls put these good thoughts in my head, but I am just going to think eiather way hes not worth it Never was but atleast someone likes to call me and waste their time...
My_Other_I Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 thats true but the calls put these good thoughts in my head, but I am just going to think eiather way hes not worth it Never was but atleast someone likes to call me and waste their time... THey are not wasting their time, obviously it gets to you. Why even pick up unless it has caller ID on it? Are you still hopeful?
Author Brittanyjean06 Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Yeah and having those phone calls really reminds me of how hopeful I really am even though i should no better I can't help how I feel, I tried all technques and everything, I just listen to my emotions too much..I gues I just need alot more time and hopefully I will be over it by than..how do you get past that stage of being in" hope>..
dgiirl Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 no clue... i'm still find myself in denial... the only thing I try to do is to simply push those hopes out of my head and focus on the present moment. Maybe he'll come back, maybe he wont. But for the moment, I'm enjoying this or that.
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