Guest Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I have been in a relationship with MM for 1 year now. Things had been going really well, and we used talk to each other every day and see each other daily. His wife lives in another state to finish up her training, so it was rather easy to be with each other. She found out 6 months ago through cell phone records. ANd since then, we dont communicate through the cell phone anymore. He says he doesnt want to hurt her anymore than he has. I am bothered that I cant call him on cell whenever I feel like it. I hate that he can only call me from his home phone if he wants to talk. I never wanted to be the OW, and the whole time he told me he was D his wife. The supposed D was to occur last month. It didnt. I finally told him that this has to stop....either he D his wife or our relationship has to end. He has assured me it will. He has shown me the papers he has filed. He hardly talks to his W, and is so miserable, and yet she wont let him go either. I am trying to cut all contact with MM in hopes he will realize what he is missing. I dont know why I cant do it for myself. I am just getting frustrated. Next month he is moving back to his home state, where his W also is. We had talked about me moving to be with him. However, his W has already told everyone about me and how I have "destroyed their marriage". I feel like have already been misjudged unfairly by everyone, especially by his family. I never destroyed their marriage....They drifted apart b/c they lived apart, and she could not be there for him. I cant believe I am in this mess. I have a successful career, and I hate that I am willing to give it all up to be with someone who cheated on his wife, and whose friends and family see me as a "homewrecker." What is wrong with me that I want to be with this man.
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