smile Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 Last weekend I went to see a friend in a play. And when I got there, to my surprise, the boy I have had a crush on since elementary school was there. The wierd thing is we have kinda weaved in and out of eachothers' lives over the course of 20 some years. Anyway after the show I hung out with my friend and all the other ppl in the show that I hadn't seen in a while, but I avoided the crush. Because it seems after all these years it has matured and is still as intense as ever. I mean he did kinda lurk around and never came up to ME... but all of my gfs said he was watching me and he kept walking by and staring at me... positioning himself in a place so maybe I would see him or he could see me. To me I thought he was avoiding me... but then why not just go where I wasnt and not in the lurking corner where I was? Here is my trouble.. I can't stop thinking about him. I mean dreaming about him ... fantasizing about him.. the whole smitten kitten nine yards. And I have no idea what to do about it.. Here are the two solutions I came up with: A) having one of my gfs tell my friend that is in the show that I won't stop talking about this crush of mine and that I am so head over heels over him.. she can ask if he is seeing anyone and what not... but that seems kinda high school -ish B) sending a note to everyone in the cast that I know (which is a nice gesture) and in his saying that I am sorry I didnt say hi to him but ever since elementary school I have had this crush on him and I always feel like I am going to act like an idiot around him.. but you know make it funny and cute not super crazy stakerish I dont know what to do. I just cant stop thinking about him and I need to take some action somehow... Any suggestions??????
cupidette Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I would have a friend of yours pass your phone number to him. Keep it simple. When he calls just say you would like to go out to dinner some time. I really know how you feel to because I feel the same way about some guy. I am too shy to approach him though. I am thinking of just writing down my cell phone number and handing it to him.
Author smile Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 sooo it seems he has a gf. And the reason he was lurking was bc he felt bad that he couldn't remember my name. This is what my friend told me. Its ok tho . I am niether heartbroken nor crushed. It is a crush I have had since 5th grade and it kinda feels just really sincere and maybe best to leave to fantasy. Why let reality ruin my first crush? It is kind of a bummer, but two weeks ago I had forgotten I liked him. The thing is I would like to hang out with him and be friends. Just catch up you know? Maybe even confess the crush so it holds less weight in the world and keeps me from being so freaking akward when next we meet. Thanks for the advice
Guest Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I think if he doesn't make the first move, I suggest you make the first move.You better grab him or someone else will.Just say hi... blah blah...say something about how you guys were in elementary school together or whatever.I mean just ask him for his number and call him.Take your time and get to know eachother better, trust me.Good luck!.
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