hitnrun29 Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 Ok Im so confused I need some advice here I've been seeing a girl for 1 1/2 now and everything was great. and about 6 months ago we decided to move in together. She was living about 1 1/2 hour drive away. and she moved in with me. everything was really good for awhile and she wanted to go see her family more often and eventually wanted to move back home because she couldnt stand not being near her mom and sisters. ok so I understand that. She gave up alot to be here with me. After moving back home she sudenly moved in with her uncle for *cough* illeagle selling activity untill she starts her new job. (next week). her uncle lives a hour away from her family and dose not see them as much as she did when we were together. And her uncle is a racist (Im white shes hispanic) and wont allow her to talk to me while shes there. But she dose text me 3 or 4 times a week and I've only seen her 3X in the last 2 months. When we do talk she seems distant and its only for 5 or 10 min. at a time. She tells me she still loves me and tells me to hang in there while she takes care of some things. But Im going crazy. Im so in love and it kills me not to call or see her when I want. My instinct tells me that she is cheating on me. Deep down I dont believe she is, but my gut says she is. Should I hang in there or move on. My gut is telling me to just move on, But im so in love and I think we can still have a healthy relationship like we did before moving in together. I just keep feeling that it wasnt ok not to see her family when we were together but its ok now. And do we really have a future together? we allready tried living together and it didnt work.
Mistaken Identity Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 Sorry to say it doesn't sound good. Do you really want to be with a girl who's involved in illegal activities? What if she ends up in jail? Is the rest of her family racists, or just her uncle? How do they treat you? If the relationship didn't work before, what has changed to make you think it would work in the future? She's telling you to wait while she takes care of things. What things?
robot Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Ask if she needs your help. If she said yes, then do the best you can to help her. Remember don't do any illegal stuff that both of you might regret. If she said no, ask for when she be back to live wit you. If she still sez dunno, then I guess you just have to do some soul searching and talk to your mates/family etc. You are the only one that knows your gf's personality etc. So its very hard for me to give you any good advice. The topic of love and trust has been discuss on LS. Please read them if you wish. Good luck
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