destination_unknown Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I know there is a thread on resisting the contact urge somewhere, but i cant find it (try doing a search on "no contact"! - practically every thread!) I have decided to go full NC, I tried everything to show my love, regret, and willingness to suck it up, but now he is with somebody else. (hm, ten days after telling me i didnt do enough to get him back?) Theres no email, websites, msn to deal with thankfully, because he isnt an internet person. I dont call. I dont call to his house. (Seemingly this is part of what i did wrong (i didnt think he wanted me too), but as soon as i knew that and made an effort, he is with somebody else!) My problem is text messages. I tried to get my phone company to block me from texting his number but they cant do it. (Obviously, technically they CAN do it, but its not a service they provide.) I recently lost my sim card so if i get a new number, i cant tell people because i lost their numbers with the sim card!) So, after that brain dump - are there any little tricks people found good when they get one of those urges?
Chinook Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 Are there any little tricks people found good when they get one of those urges? Oh yeah. Mine got so bad - when I dropped my cell phone and broke it, I didn't replace it. Best thing I ever did. I used it to message people and for them to message me. It's weird but I'm free from the respond-to-me-right-now-or-feel-guilty text messaging service we get ourselves into. My father is ill at the moment. I find if I leave my Mom a contact number for wherever I am, she can contact me. It's a miracle. I don't need a phone. And there's no little voice at the back of my head talking about the unknown health risks with phones.
riobikini Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 re: " So, after that brain dump - are there any little tricks people found good when they get one of those urges?" After reading the guides, I doubt you'll need anything further. But, -just in case you do, ***imagine yourself really old, miserable, and having spent the last umpty-nine years of your life with a person who doesn't love you, -and since you never gave yourself a chance to find true love- needing that person to hold your hand while you're dying***. Anything more than all the above would require a really serious bump on the head. -Rio
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