SantaCrisco Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I've been dating my gf for about a year, and I thought everything was going great. We were settling into a routine, which i figured was normal for couples. recently, i could tell she was becoming less happy, maybe alittle depressed, i thought it had to do with the weather, and maybe things weren't quite as exciting and new as when we first met. Some things have changed in our situation (we no longer work at the same company). Last week, she didn't call me back for a couple of days which was pretty strange so i confronted her. She said that she wasn't sure whether we had that much in common because i could be a little reserved, and maybe she needs a little more content. She's turning 36 soon, and having alot of thoughts of whether she would have children (with me, or if need be move on), and that's driving her thought process. I tend to be pretty practical, and I know I love her more then anything. She tells me she loves me, but obviously there's something missing. We're taking some time off (a couple of weeks), and will reaccess after that. I keep thinking that I don't want to live my life without her, but at the same time, if this is coming out now, maybe we're not that compatible. Sounds permanent? I always thought love was forever, and that love is a process. This part of the process wasn't so much in my plans.
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