phyrespryte Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 I hate to give away a secret but thats what girls say when they are not interested. " I am seeing someone " Its not always true....She might just be trying to let you down easy. A man who asks me out on a date via email is not going to be taken seriously. I think maybe you should try the phone more , get comfortable with it some... I've used that line before too. Sorry. She could be telling the truth, doesn't matter anymore though. I have a friend who is just like you and hates to talk on the phone. I think it's odd even though I'm the same way. I've finally gotten used to it, but when I first met him I thought it was shady. I agree with Mary3, get used to using the phone. It adds an element of um... human-ness? Basically it feels better than email and texting. And when asking someone out, it's way better than email.
romeo13 Posted July 4, 2006 Posted July 4, 2006 hello, i'm an 18 year old guy living in santa cruz, CA and attending classes at UCSC. my problem is that i lived in bel air and attended bevery hills high school about a year ago, and i had a lot of good friends back in LA (well like 4 or 5, but thats a lot to me). but now that i moved i can only see me friends on vacation, and i have barely any friends here, so i've become very lonely. i'd like to ask a girl out, but i have zero experience with girls (actually about half of my friends in LA are girls, but they are just friends). i have no clue how to ask a girl out (i did try once but she said no ) or talk to them. also im very shy (i cant even buy a playboy), and i'm into a lot of geeky things like computers and anime/manga. i also have a passion for eletronic music, and i like to mix with my pair of turntables (when people see my turntables they automatically think that i like hip-hop and scratch, and it's odd explaining to people that i dont like hip-hop and can't scratch, and that beat-mixing with eletronica is an entirely different skill and has an entierly different culture than scratching with hip-hop). sorry if i'm rambling on, i guess the bottom line is that i'm sick of being lonely and i want a girlfriend but i have to clue as to how to get one, since in a very shy and introverted guy with different tastes in music and hobbies. any help would be greatly appreciated. i know im youunger dan u but im basiclly like u only i like trials and rap and computers and stuff but da crew i hang with dey all cool.me bikes,joe hes just a playa hardest in yr 8 not a gngsta wannabe but bare ladies man!(licky basta) den ma main man ross hes just ross well anyhow im really amazlingy shy and stuff but i got da courage to ask out dis girl who i was crazy about her. after 2years where going bak out again but i find it extremely hard to make convo except when im on ma own with her well u jus keep trying and u will get a girl.
Guest Posted July 6, 2006 Posted July 6, 2006 Heh... You are exactly like me. Maybe we're long lost brothers...
goofykid2 Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 I met this girl in summer school, grade 12. last year, we talk over msn...which is really great we have soo much in common it's too crazy...we agree on everything. We are both from europe and all....but i wanted to see this movie that's opening in a week...and i wanna see it soo bad..but i want to invite this girl with me....to the movies...but i am just too scared in a way...what if she says no...then we'll like never talk over msn...and i would feel bad. I just want to spend time with her...at least for a day. Everytime i go to work, i think about her, when i am at home i think about her, she's always on my mind when iam at my lowest point in life. I don't have many friends anyways...but i wanna be really good friends with this girl...i just sometimes feel she makes me feel better bout myself... Anyways if anyone can just help me out on this one it would be great!!!
Mary3 Posted July 19, 2006 Posted July 19, 2006 I met this girl in summer school, grade 12. last year, we talk over msn...which is really great we have soo much in common it's too crazy...we agree on everything. We are both from europe and all....but i wanted to see this movie that's opening in a week...and i wanna see it soo bad..but i want to invite this girl with me....to the movies...but i am just too scared in a way...what if she says no...then we'll like never talk over msn...and i would feel bad. I just want to spend time with her...at least for a day. Everytime i go to work, i think about her, when i am at home i think about her, she's always on my mind when iam at my lowest point in life. I don't have many friends anyways...but i wanna be really good friends with this girl...i just sometimes feel she makes me feel better bout myself... Anyways if anyone can just help me out on this one it would be great!!! Just say " Hey I am going to see _______________ movie on friday. Would you like to go " ?? Whats the worse thing that could happen ? She says No.? She might have plans or a good reason. But its better to just ask and not be in limbo....
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