chocolatekisses Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Ok so I have been in a relationship for 8 years and we have sex like once a month and I get no affection at all...Its like Im living with a roommate, not to mention i play the role of the man in this relationship which utterly sucks, but we have been together so long not sure how to cope anymore! I have taken multiple approaches at talking to him, asked if there is anything we can do to spice things up and he has said no, he is just plain old old fashioned and of course I am a sexual freak! LOL...We are both in our 20's and I need a better sex life. I must also add that he was molested as a child which im sure has some affect on his life now.But he hates to talk about any problems we have especially sex but im sexually frustrated and Im not sure how much more I can take! Anyone else in this siuation?
longlegzs80 Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 WEll, of course something like him being molested will have an effect, but if he plans on having a relationship with a women, weather it be you or any one else, he needs to get help for this problem because women, like you, like me have needs. And if he can't fulfill your needs, then maybe you need to say something to him about it, or tell him if he wants this relationship to go any further, he needs to go and get help because this isn't working out. Be blunt about it. You have needs that need to be met, and if he can't give you what you want, there are plenty of men that will. Be straight with him. And if you been taking this for 8 years, then something needs to change, quickly.
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