ritab Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 My husbands ex girlfriend was with him for 6 years. I myself was in a relationship for the same amount of time. We both had bad relationships and have moved completely on. We are so happy and have one little girl. The question I need help with doesnt concern our love for each other, but concerns dealing with his ex. We need to know some way to get her off of our backs. She is also married and has a little girl. We both got our cell phone numbers changed and have moved out of town. She has a friend that is a mutual friend between the two of them and got his number from the mutual friend. She now knows where we live and calls every now and then and drives by when she is in town. How do we get rid of her. We have both told her to stay out of our lives. She isnt a threat just more of an annoyance. What do we do???? HELP!!!!!!!
tikigods Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I say that that friend is really no friend at all. Get the numbers changed again and dump the friend that couldn't respect your wishes
SoleMate Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I very much doubt you could get a restraining order. She does not threaten violence in any way, even implicitly. If you're in the US, she has a right to drive and park on any public street she wants. I recommend focussing on exactly WHY she annoys you so much. I think it's more laughable, or maybe even pathetic, that she is stuck on someone who has clearly moved on to marry you and have a child. If this were just some random third party, would you care? Is it possible that you feel a secret threat to your marriage? I'm truly just asking, not saying that you do. Would you like to see your H tell her off - firmly, clearly and legally - and tell her to stay away? You could also ignore her. When she calls, tell her not to call again - ONCE - and then use caller ID to avoid ever talking to her again. Have you tried that? And yeah, that friend needs to modify his/her behavior or become an ex-friend.
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