Geminigyrl_2003 Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 My ex is so jealous!!! He broke up w/ me a while back but expects me to stay under his wing. He treated me sooo wrong till now I realize how stupid I was for staying and actually hate him. He always got smart w/ me when I asked him something. Forced me to do things I didn want to. He even gave me money and now he wants it back.Even tho we weren't together, He'd come put his arm around me and say "this my gf" aloud so everybody can hear and when I deny it people just laugh like itz a joke. He's a football jock and I'm captain of the cheerleadin team so people think we are meant to be a couple but he always wants his way like a baby. One time he dropped me off at home and drove off before I could turn to shut the door. And when he's mad about not gettin his way, he drives so crezy that I get down in the seat as far as I can so I can't c the road.He would embarass me in front of his friends and mine. I'm never goin back. But now that I'm talkin to another guy, he's all " Baby, I miss you so much!" "Come see me after school" and he'd just call and say he loved me. I finally woke up and realized that I was stupid as hell to have stayed w/ him so long n kissed his ass and begged him to go back w/ me like a puppy that I hate him. Only reason I stayed wuz because at the beginning of our relationship, he was soooo sweet but then he started changing and it went downhill 4rm there but I thought it was just a phase n he'd b ok.He disgust me becuz I didnt deserve any of it. One day he literally snatched me by my arm while I was walkin w/ this new guy and starts yellin about y u w/ dat nigga, you aint gone never change, you stupid and dadaadada" ......I need him off my back w/o interferrin or else i'll run the new guy off. I told the guy to ignore my ex but itz gettin to the point where we can't. ...What should I Do?
whichwayisup Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Call the police and get a restraining order against him. Get him charged for stalking and harrassing you. I'm not kidding, just do it. He's not well in the head, and that could be dangerous.
Walk Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I'd suggest talking to the counselor, or a teacher you trust at school too. In addition to what WWIU suggested. Also let your family know. This guy could get really nasty if he doesn't get his way, and it sounds like he's volitile and dangerous. You need some people backing you up, just in case he gets a stupid idea in his head. Also, this would support you in case anythign did happen. If he catches you alone, and god forbid did somthing horrible, it'd be his word against yours. If you've got people who know the situation now who can come forward later and say give their knowledge too, then the law will hopefully see your side as the truth. You need to protect yourself. Men like that end up beating women to death later in life.
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