ryan05 Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I went out and bought a mini digital voice recorder to plant in my wifes hotel room for tomorrow night. I have this mind numbing suspicion that come this Saturday night my wife will be crossing that preverbial line of infedelity. I've had suspicions of infedelity for a while now, have been monitroing her emails and thats it really, but that hasn't produced much. I've busted her on one occation when she trimmed her vaginal hairs and left her short and curlies for me to see in the washroom. I knew it wasn't my shavings and when I asked her if she trimmed herself down there, she denied it, when I told her what I saw in the bathroom she said she did, and she did it for me and I should be grateful. Well when we have sex, first she is not outgoing at all in the matter, I mean she'll lay there until its over and thats about it, its in complete dark, and she doesn't really expose her naked body to me and also I haven't seen her down there for a loooong time so why she did that for me...is a complete lie thats why. So Saturday she's at this hotel (for legit reasons, no need to get into details about why tho), I wont be there except for a couple hours in the afternoon, and I'm planting this device in her room. I'm nervous and sick and confused and don't know what the heck I'm doing. But I feel I must get to the bottom of my suspicions. I'm scared of what I'll find out. Please someone talk me out of this madness.
ThumbingMyWay Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I've busted her on one occation when she trimmed her vaginal hairs and left her short and curlies for me to see in the washroom. I knew it wasn't my shavings and when I asked her if she trimmed herself down there, she denied it, when I told her what I saw in the bathroom she said she did, and she did it for me and I should be grateful. Well when we have sex, first she is not outgoing at all in the matter, I mean she'll lay there until its over and thats about it, its in complete dark, and she doesn't really expose her naked body to me and also I haven't seen her down there for a loooong time so why she did that for me...is a complete lie thats why. just wanted to comment on this. I asked my wife for years to shave or trim down there cause I like it that way. She refused everytime. Then one day, she says she is going to do it, this was well over a year ago. without going into detail, my wife was in the height of her affair when she decided to trim the cooter. It wasnt untill after my discovery of her affair that I asked her "did you start trimming for me? or was it for the OM?". well she answered honestly and said it was for him. Mostly because the extent of her physical affair was oral sex for her, they never had intercourse, or so she says because of OM erectile disfunction. She gave him oral sex too, when he could manage, and she said they did come close to intercourse a few times...but niether could go all the way....or so she said. anyway, I am only saying what my experience was. Its been over a year since she ended the affair, and I can honestly say, our sex life or oral sex life (me down on her) is getting back to normal. For a while there she and I felt uncomfortable with me going down on her because of the past know activities that she and OM shared. It was hard for both of us. Please someone talk me out of this madness. I wont talk you out of anything that your gut tells you to do.......I wish I would have listen to my gut more back then.....instead I trusted her...which was a mistake, cause she was a very good liar....or I was too niave.....
tikigods Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I think you already know whats going to happen, and based on your other posts I think that its time to just end this marriage before you are hurt anymore. your wife doesn't seem the least bit intrested in you anymore and its time to move on.
ThumbingMyWay Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I think you already know whats going to happen, and based on your other posts I think that its time to just end this marriage before you are hurt anymore. your wife doesn't seem the least bit intrested in you anymore and its time to move on. I just read you very first post. reg flags man....red flags all over If I were you, I would TRY to hold my emotions in and play the cool headed game untill you gather enough evidence to confront her. personally, I feel something isnt right...IMO, her bahavoiur is unbecoming of a faithful spouse.
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