curious jane Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 So i was with my b/f for a bout a year he has a 5 year old son - he has him every other weekend - and i would always hang out with them and somtimes spend the night with them, he knew i was his dads g/f and the child even called me his g/f About a month ago my b/f lied to me about doing cocaine and i came to relise he has drugs in his life more that i care to accept ecspeasially since he has a child and he still allows that in his life i just do not agree with his lifestyle choices and then lying to me about it is just fuct! I broke up with him.... he keeps calling me when his kid is down wanting me to come hang out with them... i had a dream last night about the child and i feel aful - its not fair to the kid i feel bad i let myself get so close to someone and close to thier kid to... i never want to hurt a child... it is his child.. but i just feel aful and i dont know if i should go hang out with him and his kid - but i am also worried he is usinghis kid to try and get back with me... Do i just igonre them althogether - let him deal with it and let time go by and then go see the kid?
Roo-bie2 Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Just "ignore" them.....and learn a lesson. Make sure you are going somewhere before meeting the kids. I mean a good somewhere. That way to protect the child’s heart. He is using this kid to manipulate you.
tikigods Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 ignore them, the kid is not your own and the dad will keep using him to get to you.
magda Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 I think either ignore them or go one last time to say good-bye to his son.
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