JackJack Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 What does your spouse or S/O bring to the table for you in your relationship? What I mean by that is, what are some things that they do or qualitites they have that keep you with them? Kindness, respectfulness, good lover, communicates well etc? Those are just some examples. So what is the main thing you think that keeps you where you are with them?
Woggle Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I now have a great partner in crime. She is the Bonnie to my Clyde and one day we just might be in the news. Just kidding.
kypepeo Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I could say all that stuff about companionship and all but lately, I have seen a side of relatinships that I hadn't seen before. Relationships help me grow and develop myself. How else do we learn to love, give, forgive if other people are not involved in out lives? We wouldn't ever get the chance to be the bigger person. Everything would be me, me me but with someone else I care about, I learn to be unselfish. What I love about being with someone is the sharing. When someone knows you so well and you share in your happy moments and sad times, that makes life worthwhile. What would it all mean if we only lived for ourselves and had nobody that cared back? We would be very small-minded, locked up people
Author JackJack Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 good in the sack..... well 95% of the time. That is it. So you're mainly with him because he is good in the sack? He doesn't have any other qualitites that keep you with him?
a4a Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 So you're mainly with him because he is good in the sack? He doesn't have any other qualitites that keep you with him? At this point ..........not really.
SmoochieFace Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 At this point ..........not really. Wow... some relationship. Anyway... what does my GF bring to the table? She gives me a reason to be optimistic about things even in the face of things that would not allow for optimism. She is very accepting and understanding of me and my life. No need to elaborate. And, yes, she is wonderful in bed.
JadeStar Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 A friend of mine asked me something along these lines before awhile back. She said her counselor asked her and her husband to name at least 3 things that they loved about their spouse or kept them there with them. He told her if they couldn't name at least 3 they had no business together. Anyway mine would be...... Helps me out without me having to ask, (most of the time) He is considerate of my feelings Good provider Takes up time with the kids Good in bed No those are in no particular order. Jade
Scott S Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 So what is the main thing you think that keeps you where you are with them? A lot of intangibles, but the main thing is lots of unconditional love.
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