Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Sami.... I did want to add to my previous post to you up yonder, that you have been an incredible amount of support to me! I am sorry you feel that way, but believe me, it definately was not intended!
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Zara.... Bet me 10 peanuts?? Your on Girl!...... I hope to hell he doesn't.....or do I......*laughing*
whichwayisup Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Whichwayisup.... Ah come on... I'm not angry, pissed or anything! I never took what you said personally!!! Nor would I with anyone else! Everyone is entitled to thier opinion, that's life! I'm not ignoring anything you have posted and I certainly did not sign up on this Forum to create drama! Anything you have to bring to the table is appreciated in all your thoughts! *shake hands?* I'm fine with you, and yes, people are entitled to their opinion. I guess I'm just sick and tired of trying to put my 2 cents in and then get s*** on for it (not on this thread) later on by some members, that's all. I'm not creating drama, I was just being honest. As for your (ex) MM, concentrate on the negative that he brings into your life. The bad does outweigh the good, even if he makes you feel good for a minute, that pain afterwards isn't worth it. Infact, make yourself believe HE isn't worthy of YOUR thoughts, energy and time.
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Yes!! WWIU.... Not worth my energy is very true! Sami, understood! No problem. *Group Hug* Is it happy hour yet??......lol
zarathustra Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Zara..... I'm still trying to figure out if my A was a lesson or an experiment......lol Maybe even an inspiration for a new novel......lol lol! you are so funny! Zara.... Bet me 10 peanuts?? Your on Girl!...... I hope to hell he doesn't.....or do I......*laughing* Hey if I gamble with money, I'll lose... if I gamble with peanuts, I usually win. LOL... For your sake, I hope I lose, but I find that these men usually can't last that long without making some kind of contact. For example, mine walked by my desk twice today... last 10 days he's been taking a detour... today he passed by twice and I saw with the corner of my eye that he peeked in. Meh, I look like s*** today... but I really don't care anymore.
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Zara..... *laughing* He's such an idiot!!! I've got an idea *lightbulb* Rig something up and attach it to your desk, so that when he walks by he'll experience some pain... Mmmmm....a verrrrry sharp pencil might do!!......lol *hug*
Sami_D Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 So much hilarity but still making the same mistakes. It's not about him. It's about how WE chose to live OUR lives. Anyone on that track..?
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Sami..... You are so right! I'm just going through the motions. *sigh* I hope one day to post a new thread saying "I can't believe I felt that way!" For now, I have to embrace everything in the process of letting go!
Sami_D Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Yeah... well I know you all will be up with me one day hahahaha... (not giving in, no way, no how)
zarathustra Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Yeah... well I know you all will be up with me one day hahahaha... (not giving in, no way, no how) good for you Sami. You deserve the best and you deserve to be the only one. I'm so glad I have you all!
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 *singing* I am strong.... I am Wooooooooman!!! *laughing* Remember that song ya all..... I believe it was Helen Ready. Geez....now I'm really outdating myself!!
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Zara.....funny!!! Sami's got me peeing my pants on that other thread!! "GET OUT!" "GET OUT!" Deuymmmmm! that's halarious!!!
zarathustra Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Zara.....funny!!! Sami's got me peeing my pants on that other thread!! "GET OUT!" "GET OUT!" Deuymmmmm! that's halarious!!! Yeah, I've done a few of those in the past too. But mostly to jerk MMs who talks about how the OW wouldn't leave them alone so they went the extra mile to ruin their lives and such. I guess we've all bonded quite a bit on here so we are really quick on the defensive when there is any form of attack. Maybe its because I've gone back and forth with her in the past that I don't really get that much of a negative vibe from her. But then I too was not thrilled that she was choosing to use that unfortunate word on this forum but I'm trying to wear her shoes to try to see where she's coming from...
Sami_D Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Zara.....funny!!! Sami's got me peeing my pants on that other thread!! "GET OUT!" "GET OUT!" Deuymmmmm! that's halarious!!! Yeah... well, before you were here, this whole forum was full of this. Imagine... every thread... full of the black-or-whiters... every post followed by the 'you are a scarlett woman' bulls***e. Yeah it's all chummy chummy for a moment but... a couple of us give up and it's all BSs and Art Critic and you will be very alone.
Author RealityCheck Posted May 6, 2006 Author Posted May 6, 2006 Sami.... You know, I have NEVER judged anyone for anything! This situation is a perfect example. I don't believe any one really thought we could EVER feel the way we do! Should anyone judge an "OW" for SHAME! The "W" certainly is entitled to her feelings no doubt! But until anyone has experienced this with a MM they have no idea! For me, no matter how the "OW" or the "W" looks at it, the MAN is totally accountable and there is NOTHING that will EVER allow me to look at it differently! It is because of all the manipulation involved with both women! How are we to know and how the hell is the "W" to know! SSSSSSSSS.....SNAKE! This is why I flipped a gasgit in the other thread! If a woman is permiscuous, what the hell has that got anything to do with what the MM actions are! He's got choices! SHEEEEESH! *shakes head* I'm proud of you for what you delivered today!
zarathustra Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Sami.... You know, I have NEVER judged anyone for anything! This situation is a perfect example. I don't believe any one really thought we could EVER feel the way we do! Should anyone judge an "OW" for SHAME! The "W" certainly is entitled to her feelings no doubt! But until anyone has experienced this with a MM they have no idea! For me, no matter how the "OW" or the "W" looks at it, the MAN is totally accountable and there is NOTHING that will EVER allow me to look at it differently! It is because of all the manipulation involved with both women! How are we to know and how the hell is the "W" to know! SSSSSSSSS.....SNAKE! This is why I flipped a gasgit in the other thread! If a woman is permiscuous, what the hell has that got anything to do with what the MM actions are! He's got choices! SHEEEEESH! *shakes head* I'm proud of you for what you delivered today! RC, how are you feeling today? Better I hope.
Author RealityCheck Posted May 8, 2006 Author Posted May 8, 2006 Zara..... I am really holding strong Dolly!! It's been 3 days and I have not had one single thought of "Who"...damn forgot his name....*laughing* Read my post in.... "Any new developments? or still the same cycle?" I would really like your email address or MSN address....*sigh* *Big Hug*
zarathustra Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 Zara..... I am really holding strong Dolly!! It's been 3 days and I have not had one single thought of "Who"...damn forgot his name....*laughing* Read my post in.... "Any new developments? or still the same cycle?" I would really like your email address or MSN address....*sigh* *Big Hug* Wow, you are a pillar of strength... I wish I can forget what's his name too. Everytime I get emails from him, I scan it quickly (business ones) and then hit my favourite delete button. I'm going to learn to stay strong and focused on me. I'd like to pm my email to you but can't as of yet... I keep getting denied. Keep posting and I'll keep an eye out when you are established. Right now, I'm going to read your post
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