Guest Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years and here in the last few months we have been talking seriously of marriage. About a year ago, when I was still in an immature and wishy washy stage, I broke up with him for another guy. I was with the guy for about a month and had sex with him, but I realized that he meant absolutely nothing to me and that my boyfriend was who I am meant to be with. The discussion came up last night about my breaking up with my boyfriend for this guy, and I had originally lied to my boyfriend about exactly what happened. I told him that we didn't go as far as we really went for fear of not getting him back..It was an awful horrible lie and it has bothered me ever since I did not tell him, so I told him last night. He was my first and thought he was my only, so it was very devestating. He has told me that he wants time and then called me this morning to tell me that he doesn't think he can do it (work things out.) I honestly do not think, after growing up and realizing how much I love him, that I can live without him. He is my everything and I love him more than words can express. WHAT can I do to make ammends or show him how much I truly care...
AngelicQT101 Posted May 8, 2006 Posted May 8, 2006 hey,You know that i am in the exact same boat as you. I've been with my b/f for 3 years and a couple of months ago i broke up with him to date another guy.I did have sex with the other guy too.But i too realized that i loved my b/f from 3 years. But i lied to him i told him that we had only made out and forplayed but not sex. I haven't had the courage to tell him, and i don't think i'll be able to.i don't want to loose him b/c i feel that if i tell him that i slept with another guy that he's gonna go find someone else and feel that it's ok for him to have sex.Honestly i think since you already told him,just give him time.All he needs istime to think about it, but make sure your there showing him and constatly telling him how much you love him and that you don't wanna be with anyone else.This is a very difficult situation but just reasure him that it was a mistake.
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