Author patsdynasty55 Posted May 22, 2006 Author Posted May 22, 2006 hey guys its now been about two weeks since we first broke up she took a job in nyc im working on getting a job in boston were talkin on the phone still its very strange right now for me went to a friends place over the weekend and went out, basically was going with the intention on possibly hitting on girls but didnt really see any that interested me i know its gonna take a while to get used to, but being back in the single life is weird, kinda sux not sure right now if i should do the random hook-ups or if i should look for the next relationship what would be the best to get over everything?
MadDog Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 not sure right now if i should do the random hook-ups or if i should look for the next relationship what would be the best to get over everything? Definately random hookups and not the next relationship. Give yourself at least a couple months before you consider anything serious.
MrDarcy Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 They're all weak, I tell you. The minute the fairytale feeling is gone, they think something is wrong and start getting restless. It's a superficial and selfish world we're living in. I've been where you are, and I feel your pain. Now, I know this probably sounds cruel, but I kinda envy you your newfound freedom. Whatever you do now, do it for yourself, not for her. Don't jump into bed with the first girl just to get back at her, do it because you really want to.
Diver012 Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 They're all weak, I tell you. The minute the fairytale feeling is gone, they think something is wrong and start getting restless. It's a superficial and selfish world we're living in. I've been where you are, and I feel your pain. Now, I know this probably sounds cruel, but I kinda envy you your newfound freedom. Whatever you do now, do it for yourself, not for her. Don't jump into bed with the first girl just to get back at her, do it because you really want to. Well put. I think most people have a blurred vision of that love is really about. Your in a relationship with someone because of how they make you feel, not how you make the other person feel. I think this is why I see so many women chase after the bad guy. They love the chase. Its a major high for women, landing that bad boy. Making him, or her care. It really does go both ways I suppose. I have a few people in my life that I can say there is true love. I have kept in tough with these people thought all my years, and no matter what happenes in life, we all know we can pick the phone at any time and we will be there. I care about how they feel, not how they make me feel. That atleast to me, is true love.
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