spillingoutmyinsides Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 im 20 my boyfriend is 30.............i was snooping around on his myspace and happen to find a girl on his favorites list who was 23 but heres the messed up part.................she had braces...and she looked like she was 10 yrs old....................now for some time hes had a complex w/ young girls dressing older..............he said if u took a 7 yr olds butt and a 20 yr olds butt it looks the same? should i be scared? i mean he did have to go to counsceling becuz he was feeling guilty for noticeing a young girl dressing as if she were older but u cant get her confused with a 20 yr old b cuz she does not have breast and shes like 4 ft tall..im mean y is he even noticing all this stuff what triggered it?
blue skies Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 This is definitely weird. Most people don't think that way. He definitely has an issue .Most people don't have to go to counselling for this kind of thought. Very, very odd indeed. Blue Skies
Author spillingoutmyinsides Posted May 12, 2006 Author Posted May 12, 2006 blow me blue sky and get a life
MadDog Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 If he's making comments like "if you compare a 7 year old's butt to a 20 year old's butt, it looks the same," yeah, I'd say that's reason to be worried. That's to imply that he spends his time looking at the butts of 7 year old girls. I somewhat blame society for this. The way girls that are 12, 13 etc. dress like they're 18+ nowadays is pretty ridiculous. I know if I have a daughter one day, there's no way she's going to dress like that until she goes to college. Once she goes to college, she can dress however she wants but if I've reared her right, she's not going to dress slutty on a daily basis--maybe only when she goes to clubs but that's acceptable.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 blow me blue sky and get a life ??????/ WTF
Buttaflyy Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 RUN! What did you say when he made this comment? Seriously, women that I know that dated older men have always later worried about this. They have all found this to be a pattern with their men and it bothered them. At the same time, didn't you think you weren't the first? he was attracted to you right?
SuperMonk Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Please, I'm a 26 dating a 20 year old. If a man made a comment like that, he's only making a joke and aha! it worked and got you women analyzing like crazy. And for that comment about older men, it depends. I think it's gross if a guy is 10 years older, rather than let's say 7 years older. And yes, there might be something wrong with that guy for saying something like that. You expect someone at that age to be mature, I think you're dating a lamer personally. I have friends from all ages, and if for some reason he has friends only younger women in their early 20s, something to watch out for cause a person like me has girl "friends" who are in their 30s as well as late 20s around my age. Unfortuantely I will pass up a late 20s, 30s women. I won't let them know though, but I'll let you know since I'm on the internet.
ronnieromance Posted May 15, 2006 Posted May 15, 2006 I would have to say that, if there is a 10 year difference between you, then, yes he likes young girls. He just isn't that willing to go to jail over it. Run.
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