lost soul Posted October 10, 2001 Posted October 10, 2001 in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids. how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance
Marzipan75 Posted October 10, 2001 Posted October 10, 2001 Gosh, that's certainly a hard one! Let me start by asking, was someone close to you lost/injured in the tragedy? Is that maybe part of the reason why you are contemplating returning to your home town? I think that you should talk it over with both your siblings and your family where you live and see if they have any insight for you. Why not consider a lengthy visit, maybe go and stay there for a month or two and see how you like it. I think if you visit for a period of time then come back to where you are now then you will actually be able to make a decision about where home will be from then on. Why not go for a long visit and see how it goes, then make your decision? Try it. I think it's a more practical solution, you're not making a serious decision for now and you'll be able to decide after your visit I think. Good luck! Marz in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids. how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance
darcy071 Posted October 11, 2001 Posted October 11, 2001 in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids. how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance I dont think this a case of a moral diliema but rather a choice of where you would be the happiest, take your time and be assured if either side truly cares for you they will understand.
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