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in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids.

 

how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance

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Gosh, that's certainly a hard one! Let me start by asking, was someone close to you lost/injured in the tragedy? Is that maybe part of the reason why you are contemplating returning to your home town? I think that you should talk it over with both your siblings and your family where you live and see if they have any insight for you. Why not consider a lengthy visit, maybe go and stay there for a month or two and see how you like it. I think if you visit for a period of time then come back to where you are now then you will actually be able to make a decision about where home will be from then on. Why not go for a long visit and see how it goes, then make your decision?

 

Try it. I think it's a more practical solution, you're not making a serious decision for now and you'll be able to decide after your visit I think.

 

Good luck!

 

Marz

in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids. how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance
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in the wake of the sept. 11th tragedy, i have found myself literally town between moving back to my home town where my sisters and brothers live or staying where i am at with my grown kids and grandkids. how does one make such a decision? i want to be in both places but that is impossible. i feel so torn between my kids and my sisters. any suggestions on how to handle something like this?thank you in advance I dont think this a case of a moral diliema but rather a choice of where you would be the happiest, take your time and be assured if either side truly cares for you they will understand.
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