Touche Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 I pick the "wrong ones" on purpose because then I don't have to worry about commitment or a serious relationship, etc... The less I have invested in any particular female, the better. Personally, I don't know how any man can stay with the same woman for years and years. I'd slit my throat. Wow, that is total BULL. No one picks the wrong ones on purpose. Look, I see right through your s***, Alpha. I don't buy it. You don't know how any man can stay with the same woman because you haven't met the RIGHT woman for you yet. I mean if it were so bad then why is it that so many other men not only do it but are very satisfied with their long term partners? And if you keep on the path you're going you're not going to ever meet her. You're your own worst enemy in that regard! My husband said he'd rather slit his throat than go back out into the dating world! And believe me, he had women RUNNING after him all over the place...still does in fact. (As we all know, the fact that he's married doesn't stop some of them from trying!)
alphamale Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 Wow, that is total BULL. No one picks the wrong ones on purpose. Look, I see right through your s***, Alpha. I don't buy it. could we, um....talk about someone else now? thank you. lets talk about LISHY
Touche Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 could we, um....talk about someone else now? thank you. lets talk about LISHY Ok, I'll stop Alpha. You know I think you're a great guy.
Author Lishy Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 Alpha I think you are so scared and there is a reason behind it - No way do you pick the wrong ones on purpose - I reckon that you are dis-heartened that you have not met 'the one' so you resign yourself to a life of dating Miss Wrong! I am quite similar but I dont play games and I admit what I want and need! I am petrified of being in a committed relationship and even with this new guy, he is so sweet and on paper he is everything I have said I wanted - So I am trying to put myself off of him! I dont wanna get hurt cos it hurts!!!!!!!!
Author Lishy Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 could we, um....talk about someone else now? thank you. lets talk about LISHY I like you alot Alpha! But im still gonna bust ya ballz when you deserve it!
noclobber Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 God Alpha... I always had the impression that you were a married man with couple of kids.
Art_Critic Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 God Alpha... I always had the impression that you were a married man with couple of kids. :lmao: :lmao:
Author Lishy Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 God Alpha... I always had the impression that you were a married man with couple of kids. CLOBSYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :love: :love: Welcome back you little Tyke! Damn I didnt reply to your PM - I am so sorry Great having you back baby xxxxxxxx
Touche Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 Alpha I think you are so scared and there is a reason behind it - No way do you pick the wrong ones on purpose - I reckon that you are dis-heartened that you have not met 'the one' so you resign yourself to a life of dating Miss Wrong! I am quite similar but I dont play games and I admit what I want and need! I am petrified of being in a committed relationship and even with this new guy, he is so sweet and on paper he is everything I have said I wanted - So I am trying to put myself off of him! I dont wanna get hurt cos it hurts!!!!!!!! But Lish, if you don't risk getting hurt, you can never reap the rewards. It's like MD said. He said anything worthwhile takes courage and a strength. It's true. The "game" of love is not for the faint of heart. But there ARE ways to minimize the risk of a broken heart. We've all talked about that so much on LS. So you can reduce the risk but you still have to put your heart on the line. It's kind of like getting rich. You don't risk your money, you don't get rich.
Author Lishy Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 But Lish, if you don't risk getting hurt, you can never reap the rewards. It's like MD said. He said anything worthwhile takes courage and a strength. It's true. The "game" of love is not for the faint of heart. But there ARE ways to minimize the risk of a broken heart. We've all talked about that so much on LS. So you can reduce the risk but you still have to put your heart on the line. It's kind of like getting rich. You don't risk your money, you don't get rich. Oh babe you are so right and I know what I do so I can deal with it - Every time I try to think negative about this guy I stop myself and just tell myself to just enjoy it ..... Normally I would feel like this and run like hell but I am not going to this time! I am going to accept his compliments and take them as real instead of thinking that he is just trying to get in my pants (he has not tried that) And I am going to realise that 'yes' I AM good enough to take out for dinner and not just to f***! ... I am going to give this guy a chance! I dont normally even give out my phone number so its progress!
noclobber Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 CLOBSYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :love: :love: Welcome back you little Tyke! Damn I didnt reply to your PM - I am so sorry Great having you back baby xxxxxxxx Thank you sweety :love: How have you been for the past 1 month? Looks like you got a new guy
Touche Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 Oh babe you are so right and I know what I do so I can deal with it - Every time I try to think negative about this guy I stop myself and just tell myself to just enjoy it ..... Normally I would feel like this and run like hell but I am not going to this time! I am going to accept his compliments and take them as real instead of thinking that he is just trying to get in my pants (he has not tried that) And I am going to realise that 'yes' I AM good enough to take out for dinner and not just to f***! ... I am going to give this guy a chance! I dont normally even give out my phone number so its progress! That's a very healthy attitude to have. Good for you! I'm rooting for you on this one!!
Author Lishy Posted May 7, 2006 Author Posted May 7, 2006 Thank you darling! He just called me and we spend our time laughing and joking! He is so easy to talk to! We are going out for lunch on Wednesday! I do not have that feeling of apprehension and that sick feeling you get when the games are played! It is just so easy going! Wow, dating CAN be fun!
MadDog Posted May 7, 2006 Posted May 7, 2006 I do not have that feeling of apprehension and that sick feeling you get when the games are played! It is just so easy going! Wow, dating CAN be fun! That's the irony of dating. It's supposed to be a bunch of fun but it seems like more often than not, it ends up being pretty lame for a lot of people. Maybe I've just been lucky cause almost all the dating I've done so far has been pretty fun in the least, even if it never progressed into a relationship.
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