Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 seriously Alpha - Exciting maybe for a small amount of time and then it gets awful! I am 34 and far too old to waste time with no hopers and game players! I want nourishment, not punishment!!!!!!!!
alphamale Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I want nourishment, not punishment!!!!!!!! I don't believe I've ever heard a woman say she wanted punishment. But most women do respond to punishment of one type or another.
Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Shall I tell you why Alpha? Cos nothing is more appealing than something you cant have! Its just that when you eventually get it you realise it was not worth the time or hassle! It IS a response Alpha, I agree, but its a response not worth having!
alphamale Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 It IS a response Alpha, I agree, but its a response not worth having! oh yeah?! well, women are full of s***!
Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Actually babe its men like you who are full of s***!
Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 Me thinks you're both probbing in the wrong places :lmao:
prfrogkisser Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Great Maddog ! I think its simple math. They call = They are interested. They want to see you = Interested....Its a simple formula. Thank you for being a good guy I have to agree on this one 100%. The only reason a man can miss you is because he is choosing everyday not to be with you. Dont you want the guy who will forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets you? A man that really means things actually does what he says he is going to do:D
Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 I have to agree on this one 100%. The only reason a man can miss you is because he is choosing everyday not to be with you. Dont you want the guy who will forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets you? A man that really means things actually does what he says he is going to do ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thats the man I want! Not some game playing Alpha male freak!
alphamale Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thats the man I want! Not some game playing Alpha male freak! .... well at least I have a sense of humour LISHY
Author Lishy Posted May 5, 2006 Author Posted May 5, 2006 I didnt mean YOU in particular Alpha, I meant all guys who act like alpha males! I actually agree with most of what you say hon (even though it kills me to admit that) and I know you are a funny guy! You are a game player though and that annoys me as I know how much it hurts in the long term!
prfrogkisser Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 ^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thats the man I want! Not some game playing Alpha male freak! I want a guy like Noah (The Notebook Movie).Sad to say in reality there are not a lot of these men around but i dont loose hope I see dating as an adventure. I encounter the good, the bad and the ugly Dont let others create doubts in your mind. Enjoy your relationship.
basscatcher Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 what do you mean that OTHER MEN have developed? women love drama and excitement...thats what romance is all about. Its ingrained in females from the day they are born. Possitive excitement Alpha... Tell me what kind of DRAMA is possitive?? I don't think there is a possitive drama.. You are in that OTHER MEN catagory. You play games with women.. You are apart of their dysfunction. all women say this crap...then why is it in real life that the "games" produce results?? It may produce results YES.. How many of them are lasting and work out smoothly. Do these women NOT become a-bit demanding, bitchy, snobbish, irritable, full of questions. begin to show signs of negative behavior and thinking. Then you dump them? give you example. Sometimes I would go out with a woman and show her a great time on 1st date then never call her back if I knew I would run into her again down the road at a party or event.... I would see some of them 3 or 6 months later and they would be like ""WTF Alpha, why u not call me again??" ....and I would make up some bulls*** story. Then I would take her home for sex. Yep just sex... Nothing more.. You used her and she used you. There is no stability between the two of you... You blew that so you were knocked down to just a object of a man to be used for your manhood... You already lost her respect in you as a person because you showed no integrity as being a man worth keeping for a long time...
Pyro Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I meant all guys who act like alpha males! Guys who act like this tend to give the good guys a bad name. It sucks. I just hope that females realize that there are good guys out there.
basscatcher Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Guys who act like this tend to give the good guys a bad name. It sucks. I just hope that females realize that there are good guys out there. I'm lookin' for one!!!!!!!!!!! I may play with the players for attention and fun but I won't stick with them... I wanna a good guy... Please.........
Pyro Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I'm lookin' for one!!!!!!!!!!! I may play with the players for attention and fun but I won't stick with them... I wanna a good guy... Please......... I've said it before and I will say it again: it will happen when you least expect it. So don't think about it.
electric_sheep Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I just don't play games. Never have, never will. If I like a girl and want to call her, I call her. Simple as that. I don't think it is boring to be enthusiastic about a relationship at first. It's actually kind of fun ... and after all, that enthusiasm will wear off. There has been more than one girl I dropped in the first couple of weeks of dating, simply becaues they were wanting to play games. I just assumed they were not that interested in me and moved on, only to be told later they were interested, but were simply holding back. Oh well. Life goes on. I like a girl to appear to be interested in me too.
basscatcher Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 . So don't think about it. Easier said then done. Loneliness feels like a slow painful death. I soaked my pillow last night because of tears of loneliness. I've always been cheated and abandoned in relationships. I've had lots of them and none of them are left to show anything sustaining. There's only one, I loved with all my being and he abandoned me without a reason. He fullfilled me in everyway possible/even imaginable. He WAS a nice guy to me until the day he walked out and said he didn't know why just that he had to go back home (5 1/2 hours away--where his children lived). He made me feel like I was his queen. He was so good to me. He was nice to me. He treated me very well. He showered me with love and affection. He was fun and full of life. He was polite and a complete gentleman. He was patient. He was a good listener and he shared with me too. He was amazing... He was too good to be true. I had a fairy-tale until his instincts said he had to move back home near his children. I was devasted... I want a man that fullfills me like he did... Without being cheated this time out of true happiness until the day I die.
Pyro Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I just don't play games. Never have, never will. If I like a girl and want to call her, I call her. Simple as that. I don't think it is boring to be enthusiastic about a relationship at first. It's actually kind of fun ... and after all, that enthusiasm will wear off. There has been more than one girl I dropped in the first couple of weeks of dating, simply becaues they were wanting to play games. I just assumed they were not that interested in me and moved on, only to be told later they were interested, but were simply holding back. Oh well. Life goes on. I like a girl to appear to be interested in me too. I think that people play games because they feel as though they have to add that "Excitement" in the relationship because they feel as though their own lives and there personalities are not interesting enough to keep the relationship going.
Pyro Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 Easier said then done. Loneliness feels like a slow painful death. I soaked my pillow last night because of tears of loneliness. I've always been cheated and abandoned in relationships. I've had lots of them and none of them are left to show anything sustaining. There's only one, I loved with all my being and he abandoned me without a reason. He fullfilled me in everyway possible/even imaginable. He WAS a nice guy to me until the day he walked out and said he didn't know why just that he had to go back home (5 1/2 hours away--where his children lived). He made me feel like I was his queen. He was so good to me. He was nice to me. He treated me very well. He showered me with love and affection. He was fun and full of life. He was polite and a complete gentleman. He was patient. He was a good listener and he shared with me too. He was amazing... He was too good to be true. I had a fairy-tale until his instincts said he had to move back home near his children. I was devasted... I want a man that fullfills me like he did... Without being cheated this time out of true happiness until the day I die. Yes I know easier said then done. I have been where you are. Plently of trials and tribulations along the way of meeting someone nice. Just keep your head high and hang in there.
Author Lishy Posted May 6, 2006 Author Posted May 6, 2006 Ok guys so I met him last night! He is soooooooooooooo nice!!!!!!! We got on so well and I was sitting wondering how he kisses because kissing is REALLY important to me, then he kissed me and I was like WOW! He is coming out with me tonight with my friends .... He is such a funny nice guys AND he likes cuddling and holding hands! ::Sigh::
Vertex Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I hope this is a maturity thing because there are too many games at this age.
Mary3 Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 Ok guys so I met him last night! He is soooooooooooooo nice!!!!!!! We got on so well and I was sitting wondering how he kisses because kissing is REALLY important to me, then he kissed me and I was like WOW! He is coming out with me tonight with my friends .... He is such a funny nice guys AND he likes cuddling and holding hands! ::Sigh:: All good signs of initial attraction/ chemistry going on here Lishy ! There is absolutely nothing wrong with a guy being attentive and good to you. Its the only thing I will tolerate at this point You go Girl !!! Have fun
Mary3 Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 I want a guy like Noah (The Notebook Movie).Sad to say in reality there are not a lot of these men around but i dont loose hope I see dating as an adventure. I encounter the good, the bad and the ugly Dont let others create doubts in your mind. Enjoy your relationship. I want a boyfriend like Shreck ! He treated his princess very good ....the way all men should treat women. Like they are important, what they have to say matters and that we are their numero uno !
radiation7740 Posted May 6, 2006 Posted May 6, 2006 It is very dangerous to make your woman numero uno. Now i'm not talking about marriage. I'm talking about in the dating department. If I was married then my wife would come first. If she's just my gf then she will not be first. Go to a bookstore and check out those self help books & go to some of those self help seminars. It tells you the same things I'm saying. Men need to take care of themselves first before they take care of her needs. Do you think a woman is going to make me number 1? Absolutely not! So why should I make her numero uno if she's not willing to reciprocate me as her top priority. It's fine if both partners are doing it. A balanced man will put his parents & career before his girlfriend. Again marriage is a different ballgame. The wife should then come first. One of the mistakes I made in my last relationship was putting my girlfriend first. Why? She didn't put me first. She put her family first (her parents). And she did the right thing. I respect her now for putting her family before me. I have recently started putting my family first as well and any woman who comes along will understand that my parents come first unless we are married. I've also put in more hours at my job to make more money. When the next woman comes along I will have alot more tools to put into practice than I did in the last relationship.
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