noclobber Posted May 4, 2006 Posted May 4, 2006 Hey everyone, I just got back to the USA after a month long vacation in Singapore, Malaysia, and South India. My trip was fantastic and memorable! For those of you that have read my previous posts you know about my female "friend" with whom I had unpleasant experience. I professed my feelings for her but she told that she only likes me as a friend. Things would have been great if she had stopped right there but she pretty much hounded me even after the rejection. As you all know we were meeting for lunch and coffee 3 to 4 times a week. She always made me as the first choice to go to a movie/concert/game etc. It's been over six months since she broke with her boyfriend (I asked her out after the break-up) and still she is single. She keeps telling that she doesn't want a boyfriend for now. While I was in India she sent me emails and written that she had a dream about me and she can't wait to hangout with me again. blah blah blah.... Having said the above I am looking for some advice regarding dating. I want to keep this bad experience in the past and move on. I got a new job and will be starting next week. Once I get settled with the new job and a new place to live I will start to date actively. Can you guys give me some suggestions to meet new women? Which are the best places that I can meet women? I don't like searching through the Internet but if it's worth a shot can you suggest some useful sites? Also it appears to me that as though all the women are already taken. If I meet 10 females, 9 of them already have boyfriends. And the 1 remaining female may be nursing a break-up or have some other issues. I really want to meet and date some sane woman. I also don't want to have any more experiences like the one I have mentioned in the previous paragraph. So post your suggestions and advice. I am all ears! PS: One important note - I am not an American, I am from India.
MadDog Posted May 4, 2006 Posted May 4, 2006 If I meet 10 females, 9 of them already have boyfriends. And the 1 remaining female may be nursing a break-up or have some other issues. I've got news for you. More than 1 out of 10 women have issues. I really want to meet and date some sane woman. You might be asking for a lot there. Asking for a half-sane woman might be a little more realistic. PS: One important note - I am not an American, I am from India. You're American now whether you like it or not. As long as you live in the US of A, you're gonna have to go with what works here. I think the best way to meet potential dates is through friends. Parties work well. You can try taking some classes. As unmanly as yoga is, I hear there are some hot women that take yoga. If you wanted to be manly you could train in mixed martial arts like in Ultimate Fighting Championship but I doubt hot girls train there. Where else? Bookstores like Barnes and Noble where a bunch of college chicks study is good. Just ask to share a table with them if there's space and strike up a conversation. There's always bars and clubs but it has its drawbacks.
jerbear Posted May 4, 2006 Posted May 4, 2006 carry a condom around and put them in your drawer at home. Just in case... That is after you said hi to them, good conversation, date #3 (higher), and have dinner at home. We assume you will do a great job and have a GF. Positive thinking!
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