laRubiaBonita Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 if you may remember......i have been dating a guy for 3.5 years, we lived together, he cheated i moved out, but we stayed together another 1.5 year, i just found out he has been speaking with his ex.... i figured his password out, and read some emails he had been sending an ex-gf, since feb. basically she is his true love, i am not. well he was in california, and i was to pick him up from the airport on Thursday. i went off, i was THE woman scorned. i had keys to his house, our old house.....so i let myself in got all my stuff, and wrote mean things on his walls with permanent marker, threw sugar around the kitchen.....but i did not touch his stuff at all....i wrote cheat in salt in the yard...... i wrote in every single room of the damn house. i had printed out all the emails he had sent her and left them on the kitchen table, left my keys.....and i am done. he called on Thursday wondering why i wasn't at work, whats wrong...i told him everything was wrong, he is wrong. he needs to find another ride from the airport, and he said he did not know what i was talking about, so i said well i will give you time to think, and i hung up. i have not spoken nor heard from him since. but we have good mutual friends, and they have said that he is kinda shocked and hurt..... oh Boo-frucking-HOO, he sad he got caught, again...... so i am done with him. i have not heard one thing from him. i am soo mad at him for lying to me, but mainly for not having balls enough to end this fading relationship. ever since the first cheat, i have not been able to gain much trust back....an my gut told me he was up to his old habits again.....and again, i found out. it is hard, i feel as if i have been greiving this for over a year.....but i am pissed that the a**h*** pulled the wool over my eyes, or was trying to , again. i feel like a fool. but at the same time, it was for the best, i was extremely unhappy, and i guess he was too. anyways, i am planning to never communicate with him again, there is nothing he can say to me that i will believe or care to hear. our mutual friends totally support me, and they have all been soo great and supportive. i really had no idea i had this many great friends! but, i wanted to get it off my chest.....and onto the chest of the shack. here's to being single again!
a4a Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I gotta hand it to you ... CREATIVE AS ALL HELL! Love the salt in the yard.... thanks for the tips if indeed I ever needed to use them.
Art_Critic Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 wow... LB.. Sorry about what he did to you.. What an Assclown on the upside.. I'm single Buy stock in Kilz.. he is going to need it to repaint his house..
StussyMagnet Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Ha ha, well done! Serves the f*cker right! You should have written REALLY BIG in the salt. Then he might have had a clue from the plane! LOL
Author laRubiaBonita Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 and i am sooooo not the crazed gf type either....which shocked the hell outta him to...or so i have heard, which is what i wanted.
KittenMoon Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 and i am sooooo not the crazed gf type either....which shocked the hell outta him to...or so i have heard, which is what i wanted. How is this crazy? It sounded like measured revenge- you didn't cause any permanent damage, or do anything illegal, and you left the bastard with his head spinning. I say Bravo! Well Done!
alphamale Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 sorry LRB, think of it as a learning experience and move on....even alpha doesn't cheat on his woman.
Author laRubiaBonita Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 How is this crazy? It sounded like measured revenge- you didn't cause any permanent damage, or do anything illegal, and you left the bastard with his head spinning. I say Bravo! Well Done! Thanks KM! This means i will most likely become a fly on the wall of the Shack again....for a little bit anyways.
alphamale Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 This means i will most likely become a fly on the wall of the Shack again....for a little bit anyways. We are here to provide emotional support and a shoulder to cry on at any time
Author laRubiaBonita Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 interestingly...the day after i ended it i found a 4 leaf clover , then another the next day. and i had been looking to find one the weeks previously, a sign that i should stay with him. found none. then this one song i had been wanting to hear, patty loveless's lying cheating heart, and it came on 2 days in a row, then a glass that he had said was a favorite at my house, fell outta the cabinet and broke yesterday. i am having dreams about him at night, like we make up, or we just have sex...i wish... i will miss the sex part a lot. my stomach has been in knots on and off, mainly on....as a result i have lost abot 7lbs....which i feel needed to come off anyways. but yeah, our relationship was well past prime....and the "writing is on the walls"
blind_otter Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 if you may remember......i have been dating a guy for 3.5 years, we lived together, he cheated i moved out, but we stayed together another 1.5 year, i just found out he has been speaking with his ex.... I'm trying to take a break from LS but I had to reply to you, love. I'm kinda shocked, because the last time you were on LS you guys seemed if not the strongest couple, at least relatively ok. BUt I remember wondering the usefulness of taking a step backwards in the relationship like you guys did.... Yeah you and your losing weight thing. Don't do that! You know it's a slippery slope. You feel out of control in other parts of your life but you can control your weight. I don't like the sound of that, missy! But it doesn't sound like you to go off like that either. I'm not saying you were wrong but it really sounds out of character.... I think that the whole dying relationship thing is a weird situation for everyone. I don't blame you from feeling betrayed. I think it's a good idea to go NC.
BUTAFLY Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I wish I had your balls LRB...Mine situation was devastating also but I did nothing. I just may take the salt idea and do that to his yard yes....excellent!!! (evil grin)
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