Emotional24 Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend and want to be with him, but for some reason I'm always worried and paranoid. I can't help feeling like something is missing. I don't think I'm the one he should be with mostly because of one of his female friends who I personally think he is too close with. They talk everday/text everyday and he's always confiding in her it seems. I hate feeling like she's the one he prefers to talk to. I've brought this across to his attention before about how I don't think I'm the one he should be with and that I think he should be with his friend, but he says if he wanted to be with her then he would be. She also has a boyfriend who she moved to be with. I know if they really wanted to be together, then they would be, but then why do they always text about how much they miss eachother and care for one another and recently after looking at some text messages, he actually said to her "u know I love u". I don't think she said it back, but she has told him she loved him in cards before. He says he never said it to her either. But then why now? Especially after he said he talked to her for me about how it was disrespectful for her to be saying that to him since they both have SO. If he did talk to her about it, then why turn around and say "u know I love u"? he says it's not like that though, just as friends. I just hate feeling like they have a better relationship. I'm his gf, not her so why don't I feel like it? I just feel so disrespected and have no support. It doesn't help that he lied to me about it from the beginning. they also have this stupid thing about some drawing he's suppose to draw for her...and I'm sure he was joking, but he wrote something in reply to her and then "naked?". WTF!!!! I haven't talked to him about the naked thing or saying "U know I love u" because I want to see if anything else pops up. But just things like that makes me feel like he should be with her. If she still lived around here and we weren't together I think he'd be okay not being with me, but I think he's only with me because he doesn't want to be lonely. Of course he denied that. I just don't know what to do.
a4a Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 He is out of line and disrespectful. You should confront him and tell him exactly how you feel about it. Regardless if they are just friends or not if it makes you feel uncomfortable he needs to consider your feelings. IMHO.
typical Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 he actually said to her "u know I love u". He says he never said it to her either. But then why now? Especially after he said he talked to her for me about how it was disrespectful for her to be saying that to him since they both have SO. If he did talk to her about it, then why turn around and say "u know I love u"? he says it's not like that though, just as friends. THUS, I have come to the conclusion that all men are BALLBUSTERS. but he says if he wanted to be with her then he would be. No, its not that, it has nothing to do with that. I think this: She also has a boyfriend who she moved to be with. Has ALOT to do with it. Its all about timing. Trust me. All the rest is just filler, stuffing.
Moai Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Men are generally not friends with women they don't want to sleep with. Take that for what it is worth.
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