typical Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 When my BF does something sneaky, am I not allowed to call him out on it or something? Or should I just brush it under the rug like a compliant good little girl?? Also, just so I know, exactly how much am I supposed to "let slide" before I can actually say something about it? Should I call him on it EVERY time, or just pull the wool over my eyes 80% of the time?
ImWithHim Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Something sneaky such as what? Why would you need to be obedient to your boyfriend??
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Also, just so I know, exactly how much am I supposed to "let slide" before I can actually say something about it? Should I call him on it EVERY time, or just pull the wool over my eyes 80% of the time? Good question, although I'm not sure how serious you are in asking it. You can't call a partner on every imperfection. Relationships should be mostly about enjoying the positive, not bashing the negative. Google Gottman for some interesting and solid research on this. So you need to prioritise and select what most bothers you. I don't know what you mean by sneakiness, but for me anything involving dishonesty would be a no-no. Otherwise it's a question of talking over one or two of the most important issues to you. Do it in the lowest key manner possible and find workable compromises.
JadeStar Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I think its good to pick and choose your battles. If theres a situation thats a little more important than another siutation, then might be the time to call him out on it. I think all things are important and so are ppl's feelings, but some things take a little more presedence over other things. JMO. Jade
Author typical Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 So, in efforts to become the perfect obedient girlfriend, I should only call him on something if it directly effects him, otherwise dont bother, correct? I am just making sure to not become too much of a hassle, I wouldnt want to inconvenience him with my hardships. Thats not part of being a obedient girlfriend.
catgirl1927 Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 So, in efforts to become the perfect obedient girlfriend, I should only call him on something if it directly effects him, otherwise dont bother, correct? I am just making sure to not become too much of a hassle, I wouldnt want to inconvenience him with my hardships. Thats not part of being a obedient girlfriend. :lmao: :lmao: Don't be a hassle. No one likes a hassler.
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 So, in efforts to become the perfect obedient girlfriend, I should only call him on something if it directly effects him, otherwise dont bother, correct? I am just making sure to not become too much of a hassle, I wouldnt want to inconvenience him with my hardships. Thats not part of being a obedient girlfriend. I think you should tell him to call you out on every little thing you do that annoys, upsets, or possibly bothers him at all. Then you're free to do the same to him. Each of you can spend fun filled days bytching and griping to each other about how much of a jerk each of you are, and how everything you do is wrong or annoying. Why don't you give us an example, because you're coming off as really snide and tongue in cheek in these posts. Like you really don't care what we say, you've made up your mind on what to do, and you just want to vent some frustration.
grateful Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 So, in efforts to become the perfect obedient girlfriend, I should only call him on something if it directly effects him, otherwise dont bother, correct? I am curious about this goal "to become the perfect obedient girlfriend" as it is one I have never aspired to. Care to tell us more about it (of course, only if you want to)? How did you decide this was a good goal? What ocurrences prompted your interest in being obedient? Is this something you want to offer your bf, or has he asked for it? Thanks in advance if you feel like answering these questions.
Author typical Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 Don't be a hassle. No one likes a hassler. Right?! That doesnt fit in line with being an obedient GF.... Here are some things that do, tell me if you agree or not: Turning a blind eye to all lies, big, small, in between. Go along with sinister plans designed to benefit BF only. Believe him when he tells you that this new installment of girl is a cousin. Justify that it really does take 5 hours to get a haircut. Minimize his very apparent double standards. Let it slide when he monopolizes all your time on HIS plans. After all, he is the man in the relationship. This is what I have so far in my efforts to become the appropriately cowed and submissively sublime GF. Please give me your pointers as well. I sure could use your help.
catgirl1927 Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Hehe. Cousin, huh? I must admit, I have never heard that one before...
Author typical Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 , because you're coming off as really snide and tongue in cheek in these posts. Like you really don't care what we say Dear Walk, Please dont take this personally. This isnt directed to ANYONE here on LS. I am just on this quest to become the perfect obedient GF and would appreciate input. Thanks, Typical
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Pointers? Always refer to him as "Your Highness"Offer to find him a new girl so he doens't have to put in all that horrible effort himself.Only speak when spoken to.Walk two steps behind at all timesNever hold his hand in publicSay very loudly in public that he has the biggest dick you've ever seen!Don't make eye contact with other men, or speak to other men.Let him know that no matter what he does, you'll always have sex with him.Drop all your plans every time he even hints he has something he wants to do.Jump up after sex and bring him a sandwhich and a beer. Then let him sleep while you go do laundry, dishes, and other domestic chores.Let him know he can be as mean as he wants and you love that about him.Find another girl for a three way and surprise him one night.Buy him porn.Never do anything without asking his permission first.Buy him gifts and give him money, but never ask for anything in return. etc. etc. etc...
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Dear Walk, Please dont take this personally. This isnt directed to ANYONE here on LS. I am just on this quest to become the perfect obedient GF and would appreciate input. Thanks, Typical I know it's not directed at us... But thanks for the acknowldgement.
Author typical Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 See?! Walk has the spirit!!!!!! What is up with the rest of you?? Dont you know how to be the obedient, cowed female?! Actually Walk, most of these have already been implemented and are in full use now, such as: Never hold his hand in public Don't make eye contact with other men, or speak to other men. Never do anything without asking his permission first Drop all your plans every time he even hints he has something he wants to do. Jump up after sex and bring him a sandwhich and a beer. Then let him sleep while you go do laundry, dishes, and other domestic chores. Buy him gifts and give him money, but never ask for anything in return. Currently, I am working on this one as a potential: Only speak when spoken to. Curiously enough, I am wondering about the hand holding reference.....funny you should say that.....tell me more about this one...
JadeStar Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 What is up with the rest of you?? Dont you know how to be the obedient, cowed female?! Nope. I have a backbone and don't stand for sh*t I feel that shouldn't fly. Jade
a4a Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 hell does this mean I should not hold my H's beer for him while I blow him?
JadeStar Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 hell does this mean I should not hold my H's beer for him while I blow him? Not only arfe you supossed to hold it for him, you're supossed to drink it for him too. LOL Jade
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Curiously enough, I am wondering about the hand holding reference.....funny you should say that.....tell me more about this one... By holding your hand it says he's with you, which limits his chances of scoring with another chick. If he doesnt' hold your hand, then he can say your his sister, his cousin, his platonic friend.....
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Not only arfe you supossed to hold it for him, you're supossed to drink it for him too. LOL No.. no.. no.... You can't drink it silly. Then he can't. The trick is to counter act the motion of the blowjob by tilting the can the opposite way.
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 Obedient girlfriends also don't have hobbies or interests that conflict or damage his masculinity. If you really want to be the obedient gf, offer to drive him over to his other woman's house and you'll wait by the phone for his call when he's ready to leave. Be his personal chauffer.
JadeStar Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 No.. no.. no.... You can't drink it silly. Then he can't. The trick is to counter act the motion of the blowjob by tilting the can the opposite way. :lmao:
a4a Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 No.. no.. no.... You can't drink it silly. Then he can't. The trick is to counter act the motion of the blowjob by tilting the can the opposite way. H told me if I suck on his weeny good enough beer will come out silly me I fell for it at least 30 or 40 times..... All I got was salty foam so far
Walk Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 H told me if I suck on his weeny good enough beer will come out silly me I fell for it at least 30 or 40 times..... All I got was salty foam so far Gotta prime the tap first I think. Foams a good sign, the beer can't be far behind... just keep sucking after the foam comes out. Guaranteed he'll give you the beer just to make you stop.
catgirl1927 Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 H told me if I suck on his weeny good enough beer will come out silly me I fell for it at least 30 or 40 times..... All I got was salty foam so far DUDE. wow.
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