jhurtinct Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 I copied a link instead of rewritting my story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t87299/ This guy blew me off again tonight, I know his cell phone died, I left him a message we ere supposed to get together tonight, I was suppose to call him about 9pm and he told me at 5 when I talked to him the battery on his phone was low. When I called it was dead but I still left a message and he knew I would be calling. Still no call back. I know alot of people will say I should just leave it alone I have enough on my plate problem is this, I already started it, we slept together and my feelings came rushing back. I think maybe he is doing this on purpose due to the fact I left him 2x's before and hurt him, not intentionally but it happened. #1 why is this bugging more than losing my ex of 7yrs(mysons father) and how so I stop thinking of him. #2 do you think he is doing this on purpose and what should I do, I would so love to have what we had in the past. This is really killing me right now but I can't call again I don't want to look like a fool.
Author jhurtinct Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 this is to bump this I need to talk to someone about it now its 1215 and still nothing I know he got my mess by now. and part of me was hoping because he texted so late last night I am still hoping but I know he won't. Now I wish I left it alone for almost 2 yrs I haven;t seen or talked to him and now he is all I think about. Is it possible this is kiling me so bad to mask the pain of my failed relationship with me ex(son's father)? If so what can I do now I honestly feel like I still love this guy (employee) and this really hurts. Last night I texted him the wasy I feel is scaring me becuase of how you make me feel and his repsonse was can you get out of your house, I said no because by that time it was 12am I don't want to feel like a booty call. This is sick I wish I didn't feel this way.........
Author jhurtinct Posted May 3, 2006 Author Posted May 3, 2006 let me add that the 2nd time I didn't want to see him anymore it was because all within like 3wks he told plp he bought me a ring and put a deposit on a car for me and it scared the hell out of me and he knows that. Could he just be trying to play it slow for that reason (on top of this beign the 3rd time around and all my other issues at this time).. I will say though that its ture when a guy plays hard to get it will make you want them even more.
jerbear Posted May 3, 2006 Posted May 3, 2006 As a guy, I left dissovled relationships and friendships if I was hurt; maybe not the first time. Definately twice and I will take it slow. It is very hard to let something go especially when you have multiple bonds, son, 7 yr relationship, and attachments. Going back is very hard, can't take it slow or take it fast, sort of like stuck in neutral. Just let it go, if his phone died, give him another call and leave it at that. Don't send email.
Author jhurtinct Posted May 4, 2006 Author Posted May 4, 2006 I do believe his phone died last night because prior to that he asked if I had a spear charger and if I was close to where he was, thats not the problem, the prob is his phone wasn't dead all day today or tonight.. No he still hasn't called. I do realize I hurt him in the past and us not being together is my fault and part due to circumstances with my ex and our son. My question now is should I call again or text so he knows I really want something here or do I try and put it out of my head and try to forget something I think I've wanted all along? should I do the persueing here because its my fault?
justagirliegirl Posted May 4, 2006 Posted May 4, 2006 I wouldn't call him or contact him anymore. Wait until he contacts you and then wait a few days before getting back with him. chasing a guy is a big turn off to most guys.
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