phyrespryte Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 OMG!! CALL HIM NOW!! It's been a few days - he must be SO sure that you're not interested as you haven't called yet - Just imagine how much courage it took for him to give you his number - so USE IT! Seriously what have you got to lose - as you guys aren't friends, there's no friendship to risk. He GAVE you his number - so he's interested, YOU"RE interested - so RING ALREADY! Sorry for all the *shouting* - but man - you're killing us all.... Some of us would die to be in your position - so do something about it!!! Seriously! So did you call him yet? The week has passed hasn't it? I'm hoping something good happens from this.
Author cupidette Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Ok, I called tonight, it would have been day #4 and I was supposed to wait at least one week. It rang several times and then went to voice mail. I hung up because I just didn't know what to say on the voice mail. I blocked my number though, so he won't know that it was me that called. I think I am going to stick with my original plan and wait at least one week.
vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Ok, I called tonight, it would have been day #4 and I was supposed to wait at least one week. It rang several times and then went to voice mail. I hung up because I just didn't know what to say on the voice mail. I blocked my number though, so he won't know that it was me that called. I think I am going to stick with my original plan and wait at least one week. Oh my freakin' geez!!!!!!! Of course he didn't answer if you blocked your number, he didn't know it was you. Hate to say it but you basically pranked him!! Why?!!! Ok I'll admit I've done it before...but back in 3rd grade!! You're really starting to hurt your chances on anything developing with this guy. At least give the guy some respect. So what if he answered, he's going to think it's immature that you blocked your number....so how would you start that conversation? Now it's safe to say...go back to your 1 week plan But just be aware if you don't do something soon, he will lose interest. I have a question for ya though, if you're sorta ok with talking to him in person, why does it seem harder to talk on the phone?
Author cupidette Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Ok, first of all, I am still a little nervous when I talk to him in person. Here is the thing. My friend tells me if you want a relationship that will last, I will have to wait at least one week to call this guy. Since one week falls on a Friday night, I am going to have to wait until Monday of next week. I can assure you this guy is not losing interest. More than likely he is going crazy wondering why I have not called. Therefore, he is becoming MORE interested, not LESS. If he would have asked for my phone number instead of giving his, this wouldn't be a problem. For whatever reason, he didn't ask for me phone number. I have no idea why.
Guest Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Don't wait the full week - just call him now..... Just imagine if you had given him your number and he didn't call for a week - you'd be on here saying 'why hasn't he called.. it's driving me crazy' All the wait a week/wait 3 days/2 days/etc is a waste of time and doesn't mean anything about whether a relationship will last. If you want to speak to him and are interested then just call him. Also you just said "If he would have asked for my phone number instead of giving his, this wouldn't be a problem." Well when you rang him and got voice mail you could have left your number and solved the problem! So I reckon, call him, if you get voice mail leave a cherry message say 'Hi it's XXX from the store, I got your number, just wondering if you could call me sometime, my number is XXXX' Or if you get to speak to him say 'Hi it's XXXX from the store, I got your number. How are you? etc etc....' By the way its a good thing that this guy makes you nervous or gives you butterflies, it means you like him and if he's nervous too, didn't want you to know he was interested then that's a good thing. Go for it.
blue16 Posted June 10, 2006 Posted June 10, 2006 What happened with this? I hate when you follow a story and the original poster stops giving updates!
phyrespryte Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 What happened with this? I hate when you follow a story and the original poster stops giving updates! I know! It's driving me crazy! Maybe we should make up our own ending to create some closure? Phyre's Ending: Well I waited the whole week and then I called him. He answered and said Hello. I said Hi. There was a moment of silence and then he asked, "who is this"? So I hung up. I don't think a proper relationship can develop after a question like that. I mean if he was really interested in me he would've recognized my voice and knew who I was. I'm over it.
destination_unknown Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 I personally think its really not good when people do this i will wait 1 week to call / will only answer every second call / i will act really breezy when he or she calls / i will only call if its not raining etc. etc. - seriously it only complicates things. Why cant people just be honest! Do your friends think your needy if you always pick up their call? No.
vi_pn_babe25 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 I know! It's driving me crazy! Maybe we should make up our own ending to create some closure? Phyre's Ending: Well I waited the whole week and then I called him. He answered and said Hello. I said Hi. There was a moment of silence and then he asked, "who is this"? So I hung up. I don't think a proper relationship can develop after a question like that. I mean if he was really interested in me he would've recognized my voice and knew who I was. I'm over it. that was too funny......but sadly that's probably what happened!
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