Down60lbs Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 I have someone who I have been seeing for about 2 months now. We both didn't really want relationships because he just got out of a 4 year relationship and me my husband passed away last year. Although we didn't want relationships but more so companions, our relationship grew really fast. We have a pretty decent relationship, we are honest with each other, we talk about everything, he is good with my 2 girls and we just enjoy each other's company. Well about a week ago he told his ex that he has a new girlfriend and she congratulated him basically. Well this past Friday she told him that she was pregnant and he asked her whose is it, since they haven't been together in about 4 months. He said she said it was his and she was crying and balling and that she couldn't talk. Well he has been calling her and she has yet to return his calls. Someone explain to me what type of woman would do this? If she is pregnant why wouldn't she want to talk to him about it and what they need to do to be good parents and how he can support her. Here is my dilemma, I don't want to be caught in the middle. I don't want to get upset when he goes to her house to help her if she needs it because I was pregnant twice and I know the attention we want. I don't want him to feel like he is caught between two women. He assures me that he only wants me and I believe him, but the last thing I need is to be stressed. I do want to be with him, but I know I can be jealous sometimes and sometimes I blow up when I let it get to me. On top of that, once his mother finds out she will probably try and persuade him to be with his ex. That bothers me, even though it is his decision. He doesn't live with his mom, but loves his mom. I prefer a relationship where my family respects and likes the person I am with especially if there isn't anything wrong and I want his family to feel the same about me. Family is everything to me. I have tried 2 times to separate from him but he is making it difficult for me. I said friendship and his friendship is "well I will come by to see you and check on you to make sure you are doing ok". Which means to me "I will come by to make sure there is no other man there", lol! I don't know what to do. What would you do? Oh by the way I am new here!
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