huneebnch18 Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 I am 7 months pregnant. My fiance' and I had the perfect relationship, until recently. All of a sudden he no longer wants to make love to me, touch me, I even told him that I was unhappy and felt that he no longer wanted me. He only siad "You know I love you" and rolled over and went to sleep. I have never felt so lonely and unwanted, and we usually communicate very well. Some friends of ours recently had a baby and throughout her entire pregnancy he cheated on her, am I paranoid? or Is he unattracted to me right now, or could there be somebody else in the picture????????????
whichwayisup Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 He may feel abit freaked out having sex because he's worried he'll hurt the baby BY having sex. Cuddle more and have intimacy by kissing and fooling around...Talk to him and ask him what his fears are. He does love you, believe that! Don't start doubting his love and wondering if he's cheating on you. That is just going to make you feel worse and paranoid. Unless you feel there are other signs? How do you two get along besides this one issue about sex? Is he nice to you? Treat you well?
unsafe Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 I've never been pregnant, but if you are having issues and he doesn't want to make it better for you, there is most likely something going on. Not saying he is cheating on you. But maybe he is one of those guys thats gets weird when their women are pregnant. Did he want this child? Maybe you should talk to him. And if you think he is cheating the best bet is to find out. Follow him, have someone follow him when you think he has the chance of cheating. Maybe he is an emotional rollercoaster too, they say men get sympathy sypmtoms. There are so many things you can assume, but maybe you should talk to him when he isn't tired and ready for bed. Don't be scared you are worth it all. You deserve for him to take time out for you. You are emotional and you need him. He should be there for you. Thanks just my opinion.
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