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Well, hi everyone that can help me meet this girl that I really want to have a friend relationship with her. This girl in my Chorus class is really good looking and shes also very fun to be around.. I like her and she looks at me during class and I have a strong feeling she likes me as well.

 

 

She's got a friend that wants to be her boyfriend. She's interested as well, but not as much interested in him as in me. He's a pervert and discusting. That could raise my chances of having her.

I only started talking to this girl about three days ago. It was when my Chorus class took a trip to Disney. We were in a group as we went to rides together.

 

This girl likes me because I was very much of a gentleman to her. I helped her with her food tray, I carried her bags when she was going on a ride or something i was nice to her. She said I'm the nicest boy she knows.

 

Here's my problem- I have NOTHING to talk about... I start a conversation..

"How was disney?"

"It was fun!"

 

BLaNk....... NOTHING...

 

I know I should ask questions like What ride did you like the most or What park did you enjoy the most but during class my teacher doesn't allow talking..... grr this is the only time I see her.

 

It's way too hard to get a conversation to go because we always talk when we pass each other... It's not like a date when she's not busy talking to her other trillion friends..

 

I'm a computer geek and I don't have much to talk about. This girl keeps me motivated at the gym and at home when I started doing push-ups so I don't look like a computer geek... I'm really excited when I'm near her.. She's all I can think about and I sometimes cry when I think I've got no chance with her. It might seem a little childish but I'm always upset because I have no faith in myself getting to know her.

 

The friend I was talking about earlier knows her since kindergarten.. It seems like I have NO chance.

 

Sorry for the long post but I really wanted to explain everything

 

Appritiate your help, thanks alot for letting me share this.. it's exploding in my mind thinking about her all the time

 

I even stutter... Grr it's very embarassing. ANd I have an accent so it's super hard to understand me when I talk .... I'm so hopeless

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I have the hugest crush on a guy who stutters and has a foreign accent. Well his accent isn't that heavy. But still :love:

 

But right now I think he's the biggest douche bag because he never does anything.

 

If you like this girl you need to talk to her. You already know what to say to her. You just need to talk to her outside of class. Maybe you could pass her a note and ask her questions. Or at the end of class stop her and try to talk to her. And then if you feel that she's comfortable with you and vice versa maybe you could ask her for aim screenname if she has one.

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