sexyLMC Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 please help... well me and this lad ive been seing had a big arguement yesturday and we both said we didnt want to see eachother anymore e.c.t. deleted eachothers numbers but the thing is. ive still got his so i texted him earlier saying that like hes my best m8 and i didnt want us to fall out. but no reply.. so im guessing he doesnt wana see me nemore.. this hurts, i mean hurts.. hes like my best friend aswel.. how do i not phone him and not think about him? please help me im trying to be calm and not think about it an be brave but it hurts.. lisa
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Lisa, Sometimes it's hard to see but not talking to someone you broke up with is the best way to go. My ex and I were basically best friends throughout our relationship and when it ended, I wanted us to remain friends. It became obvious though that she would never get over me emotionally as long as we continued to talk. I realized then that the best thing for us was to not talk anymore. Similarly, you have to realize that the best thing for you might be to just avoid contacting your ex. I know it sucks but so does life at times. You just have to deal with it like any other setback you face in life. Delete his number if you have to in order to avoid calling or texting him. What you also have to realize is that it's going to take some time until you stop thinking about him so much. It's normal to obsess over a relationship for a while after a breakup. Eventually you'll feel better about it though, I guarantee it.
visotech Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 You don't have to necessarily loose him forever out of your life. But not contacting eachother for some time might allow you both to cool off a bit, and perhaps reexamine the situation. It is only then you two can explore the options, wether to get back togather, to stay friends, or stay out of eachothers lives. It takes time for emotions to settle, you'll be fine.
Pantero Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 ^^ Agreed. Give it time. As hard as it seems right now and as endless as the pit you've fallen into seems, you'll get out fine. Somewhat damaged, but not broken. Good luck to you.
Numbheart Posted May 5, 2006 Posted May 5, 2006 I have added this post to my favourites.....each and every post within this so far is so what I need to keep reading. There are many other posts on LS that I can read, which get me so down, this one is very inspiring to my situation. Thank you all
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