PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 I was dating a guy a couple of months back, we had a great connection (on the phone), we talked a lot on the phone until he asked me out....! Took him long enough... Now phone conversations and connections in person I found out are totally different. Our date was very blah....until of course a couple of beers got in our system then it was great! Now we had lunch the next day....and our differences were huge....but, I usally don't let that intimdate me. After a month or so...I just wasn't feeling the guy so we didn't talk but, we always see each other at work. He works across the street... I've always been cool, and not ignoring him or anything like that....we always say our hello's and what not... This past weekend he called me....called me late!!! 11pm. Leaving me a voicemail: "I know it's been a long time, but, call me if you get a chance".... I mean....guys....why? why after months...do you call? I had another guy do it last weekend too!!! He saw me w/ my new guy and said "hey...if it doens't work out...call me". I mean appereantly it didn't work out w/ them so....why the "call backs"..? I'm interested to know!!!
whichwayisup Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Maybe he decided to take a chance or he missed you ... Wants to see how you are and wondering if you're still interested. Funny/weird how he called late at night to make sure YOU now had to call HIM back...Not calling you while you were actually there.....
blind_otter Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Maybe he was drunk and wanted to get laid and was hoping you were drunk, too. I've done it before. Not anymore, but I have done it.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 Funny/weird how he called late at night to make sure YOU now had to call HIM back...Not calling you while you were actually there..... I know right....then my guy was like...who's calling you so late....? I was like...um who cares... I saw the "message guy" this morning. I said "good morning, how are you". Not bringing up the message or nothing. My elevator arrived so we left it at that. I see him all the time, at least 2-3 times during the week. I was interested when we were dating but, other things just started bothering and well I lost interest.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 Maybe he was drunk and wanted to get laid and was hoping you were drunk, too. I've done it before. Not anymore, but I have done it. :lmao: :lmao: R U kidding!!! I had to TELL HIM that I wanted to kiss him. He's really shy!!! He doesn't party...doesn't go out actually!!! So EHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH (buzzer sound) your wrong!
magda Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Because you are more attractive lately... must be the new man. You know people in a relationship are always more attractive, especially in the first couple months.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 Because you are more attractive lately... must be the new man. You know people in a relationship are always more attractive, especially in the first couple months. :confused: :confused: Lately??? Hmmm...wow...It's true though. Every time I'm in a relationship my history tends to haunt me.
blind_otter Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 :confused: :confused: Lately??? Hmmm...wow...It's true though. Every time I'm in a relationship my history tends to haunt me. That is the inevitable consequence of having an extensive history. I say this from experience. You can't get away from it unless you move.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 You can't get away from it unless you move. :lmao: I did....well out of city at least....Still doesn't work!!! It's true!! It's a small world no matter where you go!!!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 I just got another voicemail from someone I met a month ago...I didnt' actually date him but we did talk a couple of times!! Voicemail: "Hey I don't want you to think that I forgot about you...wanted to know how you've been!!! Call me" Seriously!!! Guys where are you with your answers!!! I don't get it...? Is it really like fishing? You just throw out the bait (phonecall) and just wait to see if it bites?
MadDog Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 It sounds like these guys aren't quite the go out and get 'em type so their options might be limited. They probably don't have any other prospects right now so they figured calling you, as slight as the chance might be, would be better than having no one to call. I think the whole "call me if it doesn't work out" comments was especially lame. What makes him think you'd want to go out with him even if you're single? Also, what guy tells a girl to call him? Guys do the calling, that's the rule.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted May 2, 2006 Author Posted May 2, 2006 It sounds like these guys aren't quite the go out and get 'em type so their options might be limited. They probably don't have any other prospects right now so they figured calling you, as slight as the chance might be, would be better than having no one to call. I think the whole "call me if it doesn't work out" comments was especially lame. What makes him think you'd want to go out with him even if you're single? Also, what guy tells a girl to call him? Guys do the calling, that's the rule. That's what I figured. My guy told me that he had an old prospect call him last week. I was like wow...what's going on here...?? He said that guys tend to fish when they don't have candidates....they call old prospects to see if they would call back. You know that particular guy that told me "call me if it doesn't work out" IDIOT! MD your right...what made him think that I would go out with him again after our month of nothing...COOO COOOO COOO COOOO!
2sunny Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Maybe they are calling in a weak moment when they feel horny! Guys tend to be ruled and run by their penis.... make sense?
Yamaha Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Probably just a booty call. They remember you- if they are having a dry spell- and take a chance. There would be no other reason ( not being together for months) and then call out of the blue.
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