marshman88 Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 well i have been going steady with a wonderful girl for about seven months now. she is everything i could ever want. the only problem is a few differences between me and her. im a very expressive person about how i feel and she is not. she doesnt let me know how she feels about me and im somewhat insecure so my mind gets to wondering. basically i feel like i am into her alot more than she is into me. so how can i tell if she truly cares or not?
allina Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 7 months is a pretty significant amont of time to be together. She must feel for you or she wouldn't date you for so long. Maybe you could gently bring up the fact that you sometimes don't feel as important to her as she does to yuo. Tell her that you wish you guys expressed your feelings more. She may not realize how you feel, or may have a difficult time showing romantic feelings.
Yamaha Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Does she show you how she feels? If she doesn't tell you or show you then you may be in trouble. After 7 months you have the right to ask her if she see's something serious happening between you 2.
whichwayisup Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 Look for her actions...Meaning, how IS she with you? Is she affectionate, loving and does she do nice things for you? Do her actions show that she cares? She may have trouble opening up due to her past or something in her childhood makes it harder for her to express her emotions. Take it slow and show her how YOU feel about her, in action and in words, maybe in time she'll feel more secure and be able to express her feelings more for you.
PlentyLV007 Posted May 1, 2006 Posted May 1, 2006 well i have been going steady with a wonderful girl for about seven months now. she is everything i could ever want. the only problem is a few differences between me and her. im a very expressive person about how i feel and she is not. she doesnt let me know how she feels about me and im somewhat insecure so my mind gets to wondering. basically i feel like i am into her alot more than she is into me. so how can i tell if she truly cares or not? wow I'm a lot like her...and my guy is a lot like you... Please help me understasnd.... I'm trying to wonder if me "telling him" that I care for him very much would make a big difference in him understanding and knowing that I really care for him. I mean me and my guy haven't been going out for 7 months but he is really affectionate and at one point he would tell me he missed me and how he alwasy wants to see me. Me I "show" my feelings. I don't really say it. I can really miss him...and I'll show him!! I mean...I'm not a "verbal" person when it comes to feelings! I will tell him how I feel if it came down to a situation where he got really upset!!! And started a fight because of me not being very open with my feelings! As for me saying it very casual. NO...that's not me. yet if it came down to him being more secure...then yes ...I will bend my back a little and do it to make him happy! What you think?
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