v8adam Posted April 30, 2006 Posted April 30, 2006 Hi, i will cut a long story short here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 months but have been living together for a month and a half, i know we moved too fast but the fact is we are here now. We got a unit together and i moved up to her area to be with her, so i left my friends, work and of course my family. I'm 22 years old if that helps. Situation is that she told me a few weeks ago she didnt love me like she used to and that our relationship wasnt the same, this was after i wanted to talk cos i wasnt happy with the relationship, we werent hugging or kissing and no i love you's, of course what she told me upset me and i went away to my parents for the weekend. When i got back i decided to talk to her and sort some money issues out and also see where our relationship was and she said she still wanted us to be together. After that night we started communicating heaps more which was lacking before and we went to a friends party on the weekend and things seemed to be good, except for one things... no "i love you's" and no hugs and kisses even when i got to hug her or kiss her she would turn away. So i asked her today how our relationship is going and she said she just feels like iam a best friend and that she doesnt feel in love and she doesnt feel like we will be together for the rest of our lives, and we discussed it a little more in depth but thats about the jist of it. I asked her about the hugs and kisses and she said she cudnt give them out because of the way she felt. I said that i didnt know weather i cud live with someone who doesnt feel the same way about me but i dont wanna break up and she said she didnt wanna break up either. Ok so thats the situation, now i dont know weather its because of the situation we are in with me making such a big move and her not wanting to her hurt my feelings or weather it is that she does really wanna be with me and she has some other issue. She said that i treat her great but if she says she loves me but doesnt feel in love and feels like im a best friend and she doesnt feel like we will be together forever but she doesnt want to break up.... Where does that leave me? I'm prepared to do anything to sort this out in a positive way.
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