sick of it Posted April 30, 2006 Posted April 30, 2006 So i went out with some friends last night. We particularly avoided a particular restaurant because the ex's new bf works there. so we get to the the place and i think i recognize the host. i brush it off, its no big deal, but he starts talking to a friend im with. i figure he went to High School with her...then i hear hm say "do you ever hang out with *** and ***?" (my ex and new bf). its the bf's brother. i had no where to go. he started to chat with the friend about them and i had to stand there and listen. it was only for a minute, but i was obviously uncomfortable. i had being doing very well, not talking about her, thinking about her less and less, even considering sending her a graduation card or something...i had realized what had gone wrong and honestly thought i was starting to forgive her and acept everything. but when this guy said that..."hang out with *** and ***?" i felt like i got kicked in the stomach. everything was all of a sudden very real again. they are a couple. they have a life together, theyre talked about together. oh well, theres nothing i can do. my friends apologized but its not their fault we ran into someone...it just really sucks to be reminded of everything.
BBetsy Posted April 30, 2006 Posted April 30, 2006 the brother probably knew who you were and did that on purpose - how mean.
Author sick of it Posted May 1, 2006 Author Posted May 1, 2006 naw...id never met the brother...plus i look so different from any pictures she has of me he wouldnt have recognized me. however the next day, that same friend tells me that the ex says hello....weird.
2020vision Posted May 2, 2006 Posted May 2, 2006 Well, for whatever reason the conversation was had I do know how it feels to have the ex's new relationship brought to your attention. It is a sh*tty feeling. At least you did not run into the happy couple () Point being, you will forget about it soon enough and not too much damage was done...I have found that sometimes a good dose of harsh reality hurts at first, however, it can help heal all wounds in the end.
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