BBetsy Posted April 30, 2006 Posted April 30, 2006 A friend who has been very supportive during my breakup said something very nice that made me feel better. I think it likely applies to a lot of us here, so I wanted to share it: "You should try to remind yourself that this isn't ALL ABOUT YOU, BETSY, that it's more about HIM and his needs and inadequacies and efforts to deal with them. Seriously. You gave him, and were, everything he thought he wanted. He just couldn't hold up his end of the bargain, which needless to say says more about him than it does about you, although what it does say about you is that a lesser person would not have given that sort of commitment or be as willing to keep trying in the face of adversity." Hope it helps you, too...
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