Guest Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 First off sorry if this is kind of long. If anyone has any advice for this i would be very thankful. Me and my current gf have been together for just over a year, she stays with me most night for the last few months but lately i have been getting very mad or agrivated by her. I am starting to be annoyed by her constant wanting to lay right next to me while watching tv and just habits of leaving stuff laying around all over the apartment. Now the story of my ex we dated for a year and when i went to school I tried to make it work with her but i met my current gf and hung out with her one night at a party and in the next week I dumped my now ex and started a relationship with my current gf. I now sometimes think that i did this just cause i wanted a gf that i could hang out with whenver and could see easily but lately i have been wishing and wondering what would have happened between me and my ex if i never broke it off, and have been considering trying to get back with her and break it off with my current gf. Me and the ex never fought and we always had tons of fun and we very alike where me the curret gf have many differences. Do you think i should do what my heart is saying now an dtry to make it work with my ex again now that we are living closer to each other? Link to post Share on other sites
AnnaJ Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 How old are you? Why did you REALLY dump your ex? You need to make a definate choice, because you can't jump between the both of them, that's just unfair. Does your ex want to make it work to? Link to post Share on other sites
AnnaJ Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 "I tried to make it work with her but i met my current gf and hung out with her one night at a party and in the next week I dumped my now ex and started a relationship with my current gf." It doesn't make sense. Was it the fact it was easier to start a new relationship with another girl because of the problems with your ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 7, 2006 Share Posted May 7, 2006 ok so an update and to answer your questions. I will be 21 in a few months and I am not real sure why i broke up with my ex, the more i think about it I sometimes feel that maybe it was so i could see what was out there and explore new things since i was in college and i would not feel guilty for going to partys and hanging out with other girls. Now to update this situation me and the current girlfriend are still fighting and I am still getting annoyed easily by her and she has began to notoce. This weekend i made the 2.5 hour drive home and today decided to hang out with my ex just as friends. Now until the last week me and the ex had not talked much, but last night we talked for about 5 or 6 hours catching up on some stuff and today we decided to go get lunch together which turned into spending the entire day out doing stuff. While we were together i could not help but to notice that we were both back to our old selfs around each other and it was as if we were still together and we were never apart. Now i dont want this to sound like i cheated on my current gf because nothing we did was outside of a regular friendly relationship so please dont think of today as that way. But being with her and seeming like we were never apart i can't help to think that I was wrong a year ago to break up with her and that i should try to get back with her. I have t say I have not smiled or laughed as much as i did with her today in the last year, and hearing her say a friend wanted to hook her up with some other guy really made me hurt inside. Link to post Share on other sites
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