Guest Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 My name is Derek and this is my first time posting a message on this forum. My girlfriend, who i have been dating for three years, just broke up with me. I am having a lot of trouble dealing with this break up. For three years she has been part of my life and i guess you could say seeing and talking to her has become an enjoyable habit. It feels like this game out of nowhere and i sit around all day thinking about what i did wrong and why this is happening. We dated for three years straight without breaking up. We hardly fought and had a great relationship. Her friends and my friends were always jealous of our " perfect " relationship. I would do anything for her and she would have done anything for me. I think about her daily and have a lot of thoughts racing through my mind. Some good thoughts about our great memories and some bad thoughts towards myself ( use your imagination.) The point is, is that i am still madly in love with her but i do not think she is still in love with me. I try not to call her but everyday i have feelings where i just have to call her and i try to talk myself out of it. Sometimes i do and sometimes i don't, but she never calls me. She is out doing her thing and having fun. I was just wondering if i could get some feedback on how i can let go of her and get on with my life. From the articles i have been reading you all give great advice so i am willing to try anything to help me get over her. Thank you all very much!
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