Nice_guy Posted April 28, 2006 Posted April 28, 2006 Here it goes I need some advice please. I have been married for about five year to my second wife, we have had our bumps for sure, we even split up and got back together hopeing it all would work out. I am leaving a lot out as far as the past. I can tell you all i messed up big time, and was really glad to get her back. Now the problem, since we have gotten back together i have co-signed for her daughter so she could get a car. My wife asked me to start talking more to her kids so I do, I have taken all her bill from when we broke up and caught them all up. Everyday I tell her I love and how sexy she is, I touch her and try to kiss her, i do All i can think of to let her know I love her. But she does not return any affection to me at all, when i ask to make love to her she says no almost all the time, even tho she tells me to ask her. I am honest with my feeling with her and tell her how i feel about us, but she says when i get mad it pushes her away. I do get upset that is true, but when i try so hard to show her my love and i feel as if I get none in return i get upset. She says she does not have the sex drive she use to have. Maybe it is becauses she has work, school, her kids that keep her busy. It just seems to me that she has no time for us, no time to make our marriage stonger. I tell her i get nothing from her as far as her affection, she says it will never be the way it was when we met. Do i just live with this, which i am not sure i can, or am i doing something wrong. I just want a good relationship with the woman i love. I am at the point that if someone else came along and showed me a little affection, i would leave her in a min. I am thinking about it anyway, I am not happy at all, i feel as if the more i try the more I am taken advantage of. I feel as if I am a trouble person, so any advice would be wonderful. Thank you everyone
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